All is well so far BUT... does it get better?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by ac1909, Dec 6, 2017.

  1. ac1909

    ac1909 Fapstronaut

    currently on day 6 of my streak and im feeling amazig and confident, just gotta make sure i dont start wandering around the internet carelessly and start being curious as to what i find...
    anyways like i said i feel great but... after time, lets say two weeks, a month.. does it get better?? and the bigger question; how much better does it get?
    How have YOU guys been able to make it better for yourselves? i know everyone has their own struggle and things that work for them.. but i want input from other people so maybe i can learn something to keep me focused on who i want to become.

    stay strong guys, thank you
     
  2. Mankrik

    Mankrik Fapstronaut

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    For me it worked out really well. However it was rough starting out and a constant struggle at the beginning. Beware around the 2 weeks to 1 month time. I experienced a lot of personal development and at 90 days I was really satisfied just having made that long. Past that I felt even better and around day 180 things were fantastic and I did things I never considered before. I.e. Talk to girls, do well in school, get in shape, just become more responsible all around. I do not think nofap alone is responsible for these changes; I just grew up a lot and finally became an adult. However nofap definitely played a part and I wouldn't be where I am now without it. I do believe there are some physical benefits but for me personally it was just a matter of being happy to have broken free from the vice and learned what love really is. That has the major key to why I did nofap and why I am still doing it. I no longer objectify women or feel nervous around them. I want to build a relationship that is built around mutual trust and understanding without the primary focus being lustful sex. Even if you think you value women now, doing nofap for a long period (I went 240 days) really makes you appreciate them in a more companionship oriented way. I always wanted to find love and have a girlfriend, etc. But nofap completely redefined my mindset about all this and made me feel better in ways that I never had before but had been missing out on. My current goal is to keep doing nofap until I experience sexual release with a partner, that being said I am in no rush to do so.
     
  3. ac1909

    ac1909 Fapstronaut

    Fantastic, i just want to stay positive and not be pulled back into it all. Im pretty social and i find it pretty easy to talk to others and girls but i know im not at my full potential and can definitely be kore confident. But it really helps seeing others and how theyve coped with it. thanks for the feedback
     
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    JaguarPaw Fapstronaut

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  5. Menta_Na

    Menta_Na Fapstronaut

    @ac1909 your just getting started buddy. as to the whole does it get better, i actually find that 7-14 days is real struggle for me mentally and sexually, i am over that hump now so i guess ill finally be able to see what happens. just hang in there, it's not a fantasy or placebo, it has real benefits.

    These are things i want so badly in my life it's not even funny. i got a long way to go but i am in this for the long hall and permanence.
     
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