ima bit confused with group and forum . I’ve already posted in newbie section about being a married gay man and decided to stop looking at porn etc but does it also mean I should stop masturbating as the site refers to PMO . I only really masturbate now once a week and have sex with husband about the same .
I think there is absolutely ZERO need to masturbate when you are in a relationship. Save it for your partner. I can understand guys that are perpetually single wanting to jerk it every now and then.. But if you've got someone, you don't need your hand for that.
It’s pretty natural to masturbate though isn’t it and don’t they say men should to keep prostate healthy . I hardly ever do it much as porn has killed my erections
I can understand why it might be needed to keep the prostate healthy, but if you're having sex once a week or even once every two weeks, I don't think it's necessary. Just my opinion - I did used to pmo during relationships but hoping I won't ever do it again
Do something positive instead. Do something that will challenge you. Push yourself out of your comfort zone as that is the best way to learn.
What will be benefit if I do stop masturbating . I understand benefit of stopping porn or any behaviour like that
You'll have energy to do more important things. Flapping destroys energy and motivation pretty much like any drug.
Yes wanking is very addictive and I feel weak willed when I give in and shame and usually it’s never that satisfying