Confused ! Do I masturbate ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Messedupguy, Jan 16, 2019.

  1. Messedupguy

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    ima bit confused with group and forum . I’ve already posted in newbie section about being a married gay man and decided to stop looking at porn etc but does it also mean I should stop masturbating as the site refers to PMO . I only really masturbate now once a week and have sex with husband about the same .
     
  2. The Mighty Grim Reaper

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  3. Hand Jive

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    Porn is probably the worst of the PMO. Then masturbation. Save your love for your partner.
     
  4. Messedupguy

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    Yea porn has destroyed my confidence sexually and caused me size issues
     
  5. A nu start

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    I think there is absolutely ZERO need to masturbate when you are in a relationship. Save it for your partner. I can understand guys that are perpetually single wanting to jerk it every now and then.. But if you've got someone, you don't need your hand for that.
     
  6. Messedupguy

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    It’s pretty natural to masturbate though isn’t it and don’t they say men should to keep prostate healthy . I hardly ever do it much as porn has killed my erections
     
  7. A nu start

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    I can understand why it might be needed to keep the prostate healthy, but if you're having sex once a week or even once every two weeks, I don't think it's necessary. Just my opinion - I did used to pmo during relationships but hoping I won't ever do it again
     
  8. Messedupguy

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    I get pretty aggressive etc if I don’t masturbate now and again . How do I deal with that
     
  9. Hand Jive

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    Do something positive instead. Do something that will challenge you. Push yourself out of your comfort zone as that is the best way to learn.
     
  10. Messedupguy

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    What will be benefit if I do stop masturbating . I understand benefit of stopping porn or any behaviour like that
     
  11. A nu start

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    You'll have energy to do more important things. Flapping destroys energy and motivation pretty much like any drug.
     
  12. Messedupguy

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    Yes wanking is very addictive and I feel weak willed when I give in and shame and usually it’s never that satisfying
     

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