Hi, I'm new to this community. I recently married and my husband is addicted to porn. It has had a major affect on our sex life. He has been very open about the issue since the beginning of our relationship. His main symptoms are ED and requiring alot of stimulation to climax which he can only do when he manipulates himself. Things are getting better but, I have low esteem and confidence issues which dont help and im looking for a place of support and to express some of the feelings I have which i know would not be helpful to him. Thanks
Hello, lady. My forum name is Bragi as you see. God of poetry ad music in norse mythology. I can chat with you if you need to. I mean... not that theres much we can talk about but its just me. Id like to spend some time chatting with people and gaining knowlede, hearing their stories.
@Patiencepays you may want to check out three subforums here: Partner Support, for the wives and girlfriends of porn addicts to ask questions and get support Significant Other Journals, where the wives and girlfriends of porn addicts keep journals SOS (Significant Other Support) Group, like the other two, but the forums in this group are only open to the partners, porn addicts cannot read nor comment on what's posted there.
You are wonderful and imperfect. Don’t make his struggles about you. He needs to do his part. Those are words I wish my wife understood earlier and don’t blame herself.
Thank you..he always tells me it's not about me and I'm learning to trust that . .I guess as a woman you always think there is something you should be doing or not doing so it's hard to accept the issue isnt about you when you believe the sign of a healthy relationship is that sex is all about you together