I have found something that helps me and I wanna share it. My gf knows about my problem and my struggle. A few days ago just after my relapse she told me she's gonna fight this by my side and declared to abstain from solo masturbation as well as porn (though she only watches porn like 5 times a year I swear) but I've noticed a difference already compared to my other relapse. With her deciding to make the sacrifice of no solo masturbation I feel more confident. I believe I can make it past my previous record with her by my side. Having someone believe in you and share your struggles helps.
I agree that if people who are close to you such as family, best friend(s), etc, help you it makes rebooting a whole lot easier. I think it gives a person hope because there is someone else who is expecting you to make it through it.
Thanks guys! When she told me that I cried. The tears came out of no where! Sharing a burden does wonders!