is O while having sex is so bad as PM? I am trying karezza with my wife, but after 30-45 mins ejaculation happens.. I will try to take it more slowly next time, but how much longer can it go? thanks in advance.
Are you fantasizing about something else? If you're using a P fantasy while doing it, then I wouldn't worry too much about the O. Isn't the goal to form a stronger bond with that special someone and move away from PM? You'll get some conflicting opinions. I've read some good arguments that O, even with a partner, can slow down a reboot. Personally I wouldn't worry too much about it.
you are right. I had two-three collapses when I was not thinking about my partner. I was feeling ashamed that point and then pull it together on partner is important. About other opinion O with partner slow down reboot.. I reset my counter two times last month, and now reduced my goal to no-PM. O is acceptable with her because we need children sometime
Me and my SO have sex since after Flatline... Constantly. We never worried about the abstinence part except to use it as a condition of relapse. Relapse = no sex! Sort of like a time out. He's fine. A year free. I'd watch out for the Chaser Effect. But you should be OK if you can handle that... It takes a bit to adjust to in the early days while it wears off.
THATS ACTUALLY A GOOD TIME. THE KEY IS STOPPING WHILE YOU ARE AHEAD SO THAT YOU CAN RETAIN THAT ENERGY AND COME BACK THE NEXT DAY!