Idk about milk, but sugary drinks will indeed increase the strength of your urges. Avoid them whenever possible.
Just a legend Take what you want. I actually drink hot water, mediterranean honey and lemon just like our hellenic anchestors did, reakly easy to do, and tasty.
In my opinion it doesn't really matter. I could drink something that makes me feel mellow and feel horny. So maybe some ginger tea, tulsi tea, hot chocolate etc. Then I could also drink something that makes me feel hyper and feel horny. In my opinion it doesn't overall make a difference to me. 100% alcohol for me does cause me to be insanely horny. Well not when I am drinking the alcohol. But the hangover from alcohol causes me to be insanely horny I can't even explain the level it can get to. The worse the hangover the more sexually aroused I seem to be. It's so ironic. Because I would say my sexual functioning could potentially be at it's best when I have a bad hangover because I am literally that horny. There is no PIED or weak erections when I have a bad hangover. It's crazy.