when we talk porn addictions we tend to generalize it as just "porn". But do u know your exact scene or type that is your weak spot? If so what is it? *trigger below**** Spoiler: Triggers Mine tends to be babysitter/schoolgirl themes (including outfits and attitudes)and facial compilations so I try to focus on staying away from those specific areas
Does free/expensive make difference? You will not be addicted if you had to pay for membership with your credit card? If all the sites started charging...wouldn't that help?
Cams, because it is live (real time), amateur (mostly) and you can suspend your disbelief that they are there just for you.
Even better is to stay away from all porn, as you then won't need to worry about watching whatever genre your "weak spot" happens to be. Also, with all due respect, what is the point of this thread? I can't really see it turning into anything but a collection of triggers, which isn't exactly what a bunch of PMO addicts need.
Yes this thread seems a little dangerous since we are trying to completely forget about what it is that's ruined most of our lives.Careful with what you post and read my friends.God bless you all
Because if u can't admit it recognize your triggers and just generalizing it as an addiction to porn makes recovery that less effective. It's like saying I'm addicted to crack therefore I'm never using and drugs even cold medicine cause it may trigger.. or I have a weakness to cheeseburgers and they make me fat so I'm not ever eating any food again. People have said porn is anything u use that gets u off but it is so general that some people on this board end up running away from everything with their eyes closed in fear they may find something that may trigger them!!! Know and explain ur triggers will keep u focused on pinpointing ur weaknesses while still going out and enjoying hills
Basically anything with a submissiveness/domination component in it. The more twisted it was, the more I'd get off on it. I think that stems from my confidence issues.
I see what you're saying, but I think this thread could have been done without asking people to list their favorite porn genres. Perhaps you could have stated the importance of identifying specific areas of weakness rather than generalizing it all as porn and then recommending people approach it as a battle against whatever that specific area is rather than as a battle against PMO. Anyhow, I'm not here to criticize you, but we have all come here for support in our struggle. My honest opinion is that a thread which asks people to list their favorite types of porn is going to do more harm than good. But again, I don't want to come across as critical, as I've come here to both receive help and encouragement and to offer help and encouragement, and I wouldn't want to discourage you or anyone else from posting and taking part in the community and doing everything they can to help others. My only advice is to think carefully about wording and whether what you post is going to build others up or tear them down.
Great thing about a thread post with a trigger button is nobody has to read it nor respond if they chose not to. I appreciate your input but we will leave the thread as is.
I don't think I have a porn problem although I do liketi watch it from time to time mine is more obsessive masterbation. If I had to pinpoint the weakness I'd say the power and control factor where either the man or female is in control
Well, had you posted a trigger warning from the start, I never would have clicked on it. However, I understand that you didn't know how to do that, so I appreciate you taking the time to go back and do it. Fair enough. If you think this thread is going to help others, then so be it. I disagree, but there are lots of people on this site, and we're certainly not going to agree on everything.
The thread creator can go to thread tools/edit title and add a trigger warning. This site has got a lot of useful features that are not always used.