We are all doing this for different reasons and come from different situations. In just a few sentences, what are you hoping to achieve from this experience? For me, I want to learn how to control my urges, not give into temptation, and to stop resorting to phonesex and forming online relationships as a form of escaping from my real life- my husband and child. What I did in the past was wrong- I was unfaithful, and the guilt I feel now in retrospect is eating me up.... I don't want to stop MOing completely, but from now only my thoughts are acceptable material to MO to. I don't want to let myself become out of control.
Developping that core confidence that will get me anything I want in life. Conquering my mind. Growing up. At 26 years old it's about time I take responsibility, face my problems head on and spend all my energy building the life I really want instead of hiding in my room watching some fucking strangers have sex. And finally, cure ED so I can bang a lot of hot chicks or just enjoy sex without having to think about wheter my dick is going to work this time or not.
To awaken myself, my inner self, be more true and real, become stronger, mentally, physically and spiritually become a man and achieve true happiness, Well this is just a component of this goal, but important nonetheless.
less procrastination and more motivation. More energy. More confidence. Be more comfortable around women.
I think my first signature quote says it all. I wish to master myself and achieve true power. By this I mean power to control my mind and body and not let them control me. In other words GREATER: Self Control, Self Respect, Self Confidence, and Self Assurance. Thanks for the topic Jessa. Awesome thread. Best of Luck in whatever you want to accomplish here. Geyser
Great question! My goal is to be healthy, both physically and spiritually. To keep my life planted in reality, and not in fiction. To be able to look people in the eye, and know that I have nothing I'm hiding. To be an authentic man in every way.
Many goals for me: 1) To become a better person that's why I named myself 2) Fully control of myself. 3) Good shape of body and healthy. 4) To love my future career and handle it very well. 5) Having a great personality and charisma. 6) No more social anxiety, a confident person.
Freedom, self respect, sense of achievement, able to help others, honesty and integrity, an end to regret and guilt, living up to my own values, a calm mind not constantly beseiged by troubling thoughts, seeing (and treating) women better, being less anxious, irritible and liable to lose control, more patience and inner tranquility, not to support an industry that I believe is preying on and destroying lives and marriages, not to support people trafficking and exploitation, not to support the enslavement of the next generation of fappers and to be part of a movement to be the guys we should be. Enough?