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Weird fetishes -> Reboot helps?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Player 1, Sep 29, 2017.

  1. Sep 29, 2017 #1
    Player 1

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    Hello,

    EDIT: I just realized my thread was too long so I edited it, I doubt somebody would waste time read my story

    But here's the thing: does reboot helps against weird fetishes ?

    I don't like "normal" sex at all. I've never had a girlfriend and I'm virgin because I lacked social skill my entire life and never find courage to improve.

    I want to have a normal life, a long-term relationship with a girl, but I don't like sex, what I only like is considered as weird (not too weird) but can make the women uncomfortable.

    Thanks by advance!
     
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  2. Sep 30, 2017 #2
    Rebooter1221

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    Yes it does!!
    As long as you don't fantasize and watch porn and masturbate!
    I can tell you from my experience.
    When I was seriously addicted I used to watch gay stuff,videos with transgender people.. and other weird things. I was sometimes attracted to boys and my classmates... I was thinking, who the hell I am? I thought that maybe this is who I am and I can't fight this?
    But now, I am nearly 60 days of nofap and I am completely not getting attracted to males and I am seeing a normal girls as beautiful. I just look at them differently than I used to watch. And I can tell you that the sex now is not that much important for me. I preffer relationships than aiming for having sex.
    "but I don't like sex, what I only like is considered as weird (not too weird) but can make the women uncomfortable."
    You have been watching a fake view over sex and love. You think that normal thing is weird. You have been lied.
    Imagine that:
    You have been forced to watch nazi propaganda from your early childhood to let's say age 18. What kind of political view you would have? How you would view the world around you? And you would surely see Jew's as not normal people...
    "I don't like "normal" sex at all. I've never had a girlfriend and I'm virgin because I lacked social skill my entire life and never find courage to improve."
    I am 18 and I am virgin too. What I can say that since you get the confidence few social things will go naturally for you.
    I remember, when I was on 20-30 day streak, I went to driving school and there wasnt anyone. I just naturally picked up my phone and I called my teacher. After a while I realised what I did :D In the past I would just get crazy about thinking to call him.
    You can find tons of advice on social skills. I can recommend you this:
     
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  3. Sep 30, 2017 #3
    Player 1

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    Thanks for the reply !
    I'm not new to the NoFap challenge actually 5 years since I started took conscience of the addiction, so I completely know what you mean about gaining confidence and do things you wouldn't do while not on a streak, that's one of the main reason I believed that NoFap works at first try. Yes, it is indeed the lack of confidence; speaking in front of family or true friends is something easy because they know you, and you trust them. When it comes to people you barely know you got to trust your own capacities, practise & nofap benefits to increase your chance to get better and better at talking with people. Also, thanks for the vid, it was what I needed to hear.

    I'm curious to see what will become of my fetishes once I will have reached my goal (normal lifestyle). Does it really fade like that ? I trust libido to be something powerful though, I've never reached so high streak to feel what it's like to be completly rebooted, so I guess I'm gonna see what's coming.

    Take care!
     
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  4. Sep 30, 2017 #4
    nofepper

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    just to say i watched accidentally porn today and it was my favorite genre and i felt absolute nothing...not yet sure it is over, but definitely it is better and i feel like i am healing
     
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