It's difficult to find beautiful girl(s) to have sex

Having sex with a girl won’t cure your PMO addiction.

Sex is great, and if that’s the only thing you want, lower your expectations.

The women you’re describing generally garner a lot of attention, and won’t sleep with any random guy just because.

 

Yeah I agree with @PSC94, as a guy that's spent thousands of dollars on sex, it isn't really the answer to any of your problems man. Sex is a basal desire for human beings, it isn't something to aspire to because in reality: sex is a fun thing to do but ultimately it means nothing. It's another simple action like walking or eating breakfast. What the media has done is try to convince you that sex and a naked woman are something extraordinary that you should desire all the time, and it's magic, and it'll cure all your problems, you'll never be sick again, you'll be happy forever, and it'll answer all of your questions!

Unfortunately, that's simply not true. There are no easy ways to be happy, healthy, or find true knowledge. It takes hard work and a lot of experimentation.

If you find this hard to believe try remembering that we were all naked at one point in time. A naked girl is a normal thing to see in the wild. It doesn't really mean anything to our ancestors or to ourselves. Sex is a lie sold to us by the media to make us buy more things. I'm not trying to blame them I'm just stating a fact.

You desire sex because you think it'll fix all of your problems. I want to say that sex is nothing, and your problems are much bigger. You're looking for a simple solution to a very very complex issue. If you want to know where to start, start anywhere. Do anything! Start a journal, write a few posts, cook some pasta, go for a walk and do that for a week. Do anything man, and you'll be closer than you were yesterday trying to fix this problem. Then do something every day and it will slowly add up.

 

Your going about this all wrong. Take it from someone who used to have the same mindset. I used to be obsessed with sex and beautiful women but there's not enough solace in that short term pleasure. There is nothing as fleeting as form; you need to make a real lasting connection to feel good. Obviously easier said than done, but it's the best route imo. Im working towards finding love and having a long term relationship. It's been an extremely deliberate effort and nothing has happened on it's own and I'm still far from being in a fully established relationship. But my advice is to find someone you care about more than just looks and not be worried or insecure about being a virgin. That's what I have done and it feels like I have purpose and am working towards something. Plus it's a noble an honorable aspiration that's going to bring me happiness.

 

If sex could end the porn addiction, there would be no married men on these forums, no boyfriends, no people having one night stands participating in these discussions.

But all of those people are here, so what does that tell you?

 

Apart from being expensive, why you think brothels are not a good idea?. Prostitution is legal in Nevada, so the working conditions for sex workers must be good.

 

Nothing strange about wanting to touch breasts! Just, go for the real thing - it's much more rewarding to touch the breasts of a woman who wants you to touch her breasts and feels comfortable with you doing so. No second-guessing if she's only into it because you paid her. Having a girlfriend or wife is so much more than breasts. The boob-touching is the icing on the cake, don't get me wrong, but there is so much more to discover and enjoy about having a partner that a sex worker cannot give. Don't take shortcuts and enjoy the journey!

Dude...have you seen sex workers? Is it possible for their working conditions to be good? I walked through a portion of the red light district in Amsterdam, and the thing that struck me was how incredibly mundane it all was, how bored the women were. Makes sex look about as exciting as a shitty telemarketing job, not the warm, rich, laughter-filled thing it can be.

 

Stop thinking about it like this. You're a virgin? No one cares, I mean literally, no one cares. You think women or people will think of you as better if you're not a virgin? No. They don't give a fuck. And so what if you do lose your virginity, huh? What happens then? Have you ever stopped and thought about what you want from life beyond having sex with a beautiful girl?
There's so much more to living than sexual pleasure. Don't waste more time chasing after stupid primal desires. You're a human, not an animal. Go out there and live like a person.

 

Virginity is literally nothing.

Loosing my virginity did not make me feel any different about anything. Life was exactly the same.

 

I have consumed prostitution. I live in a country in a same legal status like Netherlands, I think this model is not the best one but is better than a model in which prostitution is illegal or the john is punished for buying sex. I think New Zealand has the best model.
I didn't said their working conditions were wonderful in Nevada, of course sex workers have to deal with stigmatization, prejudice, sexism. Probably the sex workers that offer an affordable service for everyone wont be rich, but every person even with a minimum wage job can afford payed sex.

 

Lost my virginity to my mates girlfriend and had a string of one night stands. Didn't have a proper relationship for 7 years and I blamed it to rushing intonsex and not a relationship. Not always a good thing to rush, some of the best people I know didn't lose their virginity for years after the "norm"

 

I have a tip: Just don't. Just don't look for women for sex, look for romance with them, slow down a bit, build intimacy with her, brick after brick, you are rushing, my friend, this way you'll never get anything.

Losing virginity will not change anything on you.

 

So you're looking for a hot chic huh? Aren't most guys, lol.

 

Yeah

 

Having a hot chick by your side is not the answer. Realize that models are the most insecure people because they are always comparing themselves.
Marrying a hot chick thinking you have unlimited supply of sex is not the answer because sex only constitute a small percentage of your activity together. Marriage is hard working but can also be very rewarding if one is not selfish. You have to be able to connect in many ways because eventually that beauty will fade as they get older.
Romance and sex is not the same. Losing your virginity does not make you any better.

 

Everything i said, but 9999 times better.