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What is your opinion about this?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quaresma, Mar 20, 2018.

  1. Quaresma

    Quaresma Fapstronaut

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    What is your opinion about this?

    In your reboot having conversations with a REAL girl about sex etc. But you don't watch porn, dont masturbate and also dont orgasm. Pure conversations about sex.. it is not a prostitute or something, but a real girl.. She lives far, so we cant meet eachother..

    Does it damage your reboot or is this good because it is a real girl and not a pornstar on a screen?
     
  2. Dee jay

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    Ihv the same question. What are your problems btw??
     
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  3. Quaresma

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    That i get heated up and being Horny!
    But i can recist te urge and dont watch porn or masturbate and orgasm. So i dont know what to do..
     
  4. Igaleksus

    Igaleksus Fapstronaut

    walking along the edge of the blade. If it is only fantasies, without real sex, even without the possibility of sex in the near future, then it is not good for reboot - I think so.
     
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  5. Quaresma

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    So i should stop the contact with her you think???

    Thanks for the advice!
     
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  6. Igaleksus

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    I don't know, bro, I don't know whole sitation. For me talking to a woman - would be a very pleasant experience. My friend calls the girls who cause strong sexual arousal - "toxic objects." You can communicate with them, but you just have to remember that they are toxic to us and can lead to undesirable consequences. Maybe you should continue contact, but try to build boundaries in communication - for example, to agree with each other not to touch upon topics that may lead you to a relapse. In any case, it's up to you, only you know the whole situation and are able to make a decision. But we will support any of your choices. Good luck!
     
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  7. Quaresma

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    Thanks for the good advice bro!
     
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  8. Quaresma

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    Thanks bro!
     
  9. Quaresma

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    Someone else with advice?
     
  10. Quaresma

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    Thanks men!
     
  11. Quaresma

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    Someone else with advice?
     
  12. well i personally dont think that nofap is for dudes who wanna fuck every girl they see. sex should be with loving partner, and not some random woman on internet. just saying. Is this girl your girlfriend or anything? if not, i suggest you try getting a girlfriend. if you don't wanna do that, then idk
     
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  13. abouttime19

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    a wise book reads "can a man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned".*

    Too many of us ask the wrong question - how close can I get? Can I edge? What if I don't climax? Talk to a girl but not make touch?

    Think with a different perspective. Almost, FLEE from those that arousal you and tempt you from going back to PMO. If you keep that fire close to your chest, you will surely burn, and lose.

    (quote is from Proverbs 5:27-29)*

    Goodluck
     
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  14. Quaresma

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    Thanks bro!
     
  15. Quaresma

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    But thats why men do nofap? So they can heal and dont wanna fuck every girl they see.. right??
     
  16. look i am a guy myself, a teen as a matter of fact. i have 0 problems with sex. im just saying that guys should heal so they can have a loving relationship with a girl, and possibly even repopulate so the human race wont get extinct
     
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  17. abouttime19

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    We're actually overpopulating the world!
     
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  18. That’s great. The more the better.
     
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  19. Son of shiva

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    Avoid this also until you have completed 1 year of NoFap...
     
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  20. Quaresma

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    And then? What changes should i see?
     

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