Today hit the 14th day mark, wetdream and back to square one

Hi, let me just say I have successfully overcome the 'wetdream' issues.

Yes it is true that it creates a chaser and some of the good stuff that nofap brings are wiped out. However, please understand that this is NOT a conscious thing. You couldn't do much to prevent this. As a result this is an accident that just happened. For these reasons the psychology from actually fapping and the psychology for a wetdream is way way different.

What I found is that when I concentrate on this fact, I realise that 'hey' it was out of my control, once I have understood this I quickly address the fact of getting through the first and second day as this is where the chaser is most strong.

Once those two days and done I'm plain sailing again.

Hope that helped

 

I don't think you need to reset if you have a wetdream... or am I wrong?!

 

How? I have had a similar situation to horyshet - would love to know any advice on how not to wet dream!

 

I don't think you should reset if you have a wet dream. you didn't PMO. It was literally just your brain and body deciding to release some sexual energy and semen. Don't let it get you down.

 

Agree with Benjy...you didn't PMO and your I think your body naturally has to release the love juice if you aren't actually having sex and releasing it...

 

Have u broken free of addiction altogether?

 

How is having a wet dream a bag thing? I mean you didn't touch your dick, its a sign of recovery

 

I seriously hate wet and otherwise dirty dreams. I actually really enjoy them but they end up causing too much temptation after the fact. For the few wetdreams I've had it's pretty much a guaranteed relapse the next day due to my mind being filled up with that crap. Wish there was a way to wake up from those. I guess my unconscious isn't into the whole Nofap thing.

 

Wet dreams are uncontrollable biological processes and there's absolutely no reason for you to reset.

 

Had one last night... As far as I'm concerned, they are completely uncontrollable, and actually make the NoFap streak more enjoyable. Embrace them!

 

Enjoyable? Maybe. I think that depends very much on the nature of the erotic dream. If it is of 'normal' sex, yes, I can see your point. But some of us have wallowed in the sex cesspit and a dream that is full of degrading perversions can be extremely disturbing. Many report that the context of the wet dream is that they are masturbating to porn - relapsing basically. It just isn't possible to enjoy that or embrace it.

I also wanted to say that you are doing fantastically well beauty. You are so close to a major milestone - 2 MONTHS - so remain vigilant, breast the tape and keep going. IGY

 

I suppose enjoyable isn't quite the word that I would have used, perhaps tolerable. I think embracing the WD as a whole is better than getting pessimistic and down when you have one. Because there's nothing we can do about them, it's better to embrace in my opinion.

Anyhow

 

wet dreams is not bad thing,its something happens to every one,PMO is the ENEMY

 

I think he meant he's not having them anymore, but there's no guarantee he won't have them ever again. It is quite literally impossible to control them. They are perfectly normal and you shouldn't feel ashamed for having them. There's nothing you can do and you shouldn't feel shame for something your body may or may not do while you are sleeping. They are less frequent as you get older, but men are still capable of having them at any time throughout their life.

Normally, wet dreams generally occur in adolescent males, but because of the nature of abstaining from PMO, I think it can happen as a result of the body needing to "release" on a subconscious level. It can also be a sign that your body is returning to normal again. It can also mean nothing.

There's no reason to stress over it. Just carry on with what you're doing. Don't reset. Don't stress. Just keep on doing what you've been doing.