Hi first time on these forums I'm a healthy 32 year-old. I've been pmoing since I was 16. Been married for 6 years. After losing our daughter in earlier this year due to stillbirth and with the spouse needed time to heal emotionally and physically I turned to more frequent PMO. Just last week after masturbating twice in one day I felt a little pain in my penis but it went away quickly. Three days later all a sudden I felt the need to urinate more often like every hour. So decided to stop PMO Went to the Doc got a urine and blood test everything came back normal. The urge to urinate has stopped but I seem to have constipation and my penis is flatline mode with no libido. So is this just anxiety or have done some damage to my prostate/penis?
It could be an enlarged prostate but you wouldn’t know without an exam. Do you feel like you have a small ball stuck up your ass? That would be an enlarged prostate
im not a doctor and you should get the prostate checked. However, i am betting with a 97% certainty that the peeing part is your body detoxing or flushing from anxiety by your nofap. its like a with drawl symptom. think of heroin addicts going cold turkey. they have many physical withdrawal symptoms. for me it would be too much of a coincidence that you would have a prostate problem the same time you started nofap. However, there is always that very unlikely chance. i think also you will rest easy by having it checked out. also the constipation side means you need to look at your diet. eating more green vegtables for example. i wouldn't use this as an excuse to stop. yes its very annoying i sympathise but you are only kicking the problem further down the road. also, i just want to say im very sad to read about the still birth. that really made me tell myself to shut up about my 21st century issues at the moment. even if you only lasted for a few days doing each time you will be much stronger for your wife. she needs you to be strong. i could fully understand the need and logic of using pmo in that situation. you will be under a lot of stress.
Two days ago went into relapse Had a 90% strong erection afrer watching porn so I tried to masturbate but it died in a few minutes and it almost felt like I had a dry orgasm no semen came out. Went to the doc again yesterday. Got the blood/urine test again which came back negative. He also performed a prostate exam which was also normal. Now I've been referred to a urologist sometime next week. I still have urge to urinate it's like I cant stop and oddly enough sometimes the feel just stops by itself. My biggest problem now is still no morning woods for over 2 weeks now and I'm not getting a erection even afrer watching porn like I used to before. Tried to have sex with the wife but still in flatline mode. Maybe my testostrome levels are low? Could it be nonbacterial prostatitis? Or pelvic floor dysfunction? Would you recommend trying a drug like Sildenafil or Cialas?
I think from what you telling me now it’s a bad flatline and you just need to let yourself heal and not try and rush anything.
