The Sad Reality of the NoFap Community. Please Read.

Trust me, i'm not taking it personally. I'm just enforcing the idea behind it and NOT my own views.

Sexual integrity is not the subject of the experiment. As the first point highlights, it's an attempt into understanding the extremely prevalent habit of relapses here. At least I know the cause now. Hypocrisy reigns supreme.

Addiction is widely considered to be a disease in the addiction community by the way.
What... does that even mean?

She was continuously informed of my actions via Skype. I was the one who called it off. She wanted it to proceed for our intended 3 hour span despite my retorts.
I will accept the blame of deception however. No roundabout there. However, if you see any other way of attaining this intel, do tell.

Except i DID mention females only.

I don't care if Alexander had you play with his My Little Pony collection. The point of nofap is no.fap. And not only are people very much fapping on the forum, they're approaching people with that sickness. I'd say that's a huge danger to the forum.

Decline or accept, results speak loud and clear, and as you can clearly see- i base my opinions on results. I'll be sure to check in when the time comes
I reached 101 days once. Your point?

 

Deal

 

Think of it as more of me trying to prove something to myself. I haven't revealed any members' identities and/or chats so chill. I'm not trying to create a stink here.

In any case, i found out far, far more than i've revealed in that post above (for the obvious reason of peace), but i'll try to end this "it is to be expected" here and now by adding this:
1. Several members are using multiple accounts and posing as females... for years now. Don't just lunge at me who did it for 72 minutes and deleted the account and revealed it to everyone. They're out there making guys relapse and pour out their hearts at nothing. I just wonder how many guys have been done in.
2. One of the 2 individuals who tried to approach me messaged me back my complete home address and facebook. I was using a VPN so he mistook the other IP for mine and got someone else's intel. There are serious stalkers out there and i don't think banning them from nofap is exactly a way to make them forget "my" details.

Pardon me for trying to speak out for cases like that.

Certainly not me. I came to this website to not masturbate and avoiding females is step one for me. Some people don't realise that. All i'm saying is: "you're on the wrong path". I'm not here to judge. I'm just trying to raise awareness.

So pardon my good intentions as well. I can't force someone off their mistakes and i'm not about to humiliate anyone, but i'm just making a plea here.

Then let them relapse and relapse with that kind of sexist mentality. One whose mindset is so biased can never succeed. I can't help everybody, can I?

You do get the bigger picture then.

I'm just trying to revert some of that damage bro.

 

So at least now you understand the gravity of the situation. Glad to see your eyes are 100% open now. I can't call names because i have no physical proof.

But if the admins are to perform an IP cross-check on multiple accounts, they will note what i say to be fact. It could also mean that multiple fapstronauts use the same device to log in to and post on the site.

But really- when you see a 20 year old male from one country and an 18 year old female from another sharing a common IP, it rules out that scenario, doesn't it?

I'm not calling any names. The admins will have more than enough capability to perform the above task but i'm not sure they have the time to perform a manual cross check. I only got my results because i had a firm suspicion on which accounts to link.

So there, not so little an issue now, is it?

 

See, that's where you're wrong. I don't care if you believe me or not. The truth does not depend on your opinion alone. Add to that the fact that for this very scenario of paranoia and distrust, i did not mention it in the op. Because the point of my post isn't to single out the decievers; it's to bring together those genuinely seeking a journey to betterment.

Okay then.
You can interpret it however you like but the fact remains that i'm not mentioning a single name to anyone. No moderator will ask me because they know where (or at least how) to dig and you're not particularly important as far as divulging the intel goes. All it will do is add to the fire. That said, i am out.

I've said all i need to and i'm unfollowing this thread as of now. My purpose was to encourage and motivate but i didn't count on people like you turning this into a pissing contest. Go figure.

Long live nofap.

 

This tells me a LOT about how you view things in life.

Good luck on nofap with that aproach. You need positivity and optimism to get far here.

 

Welcome to nofap good sir and best of luck on your journey!

If i may, i recommend you to take a look at the "new to nofap" section and get acquainted with our community! Feel free to leave a "hi!". You may access it here:
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/new-to-nofap.6/

Additionally, there is also a section dedicated to pairing you up with an Accountability Partner who you can keep track of your journey with! If you wish to seek a partner, feel free to post in that section, which you can access from here:
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/accountability-partners.7/

Lastly, if you so desire, you can create a thread here detailing your nofap journey, i.e. a Journal. Your age group has journals posted in the following section:
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/ages-40.21/

I hope you have a pleasant and productive time here! Best of luck on your journey sir