Yeah. Had a lot more time lately. Things are picking back up this month though. I'll give insights to the interesting posts here. Not the "is my dick big enough?" or "should I prostitutes? threads lol.
This global pandemic pisses me off. Enjoy life while you still can. It took COVID to remind me that there's no guarantees in life.
Can't control everybody. But I can change myself and be good to people around me. That's not bad, right?
The more humble I am in knowing that I have no control and going for what I want with all my heart anyways, the more things work out.
There's no guarantees, you could get hurt / fail / be rejected / look like a fool... but wouldn't it be fun to go for it anyways?
Most think I'll become that person after DOING and when I HAVE but it's only when you focus on BEING that the doing and having really works.
Everything is impermanent. That's what makes life meaningful. Life is about duality. Positive and negative. Pain and pleasure.
More often than not, I read too much toxic / negative garbage around this forum. I need a break or maybe a permanent leave.
Thank you for creating very amazing posts,messages here.You are simply the best.Thanks for the precious insight
Being popular with women is actually pretty easy. Just don't have the toxic and misogynistic mindset that most men on this forum have.
Unwavering faith. Absolute conviction. Believing in something more than what currently is. Then life will follow like a delayed reflection.
Most people look at the mirror and only focus on what currently is. Then they think, feel, and act according to that reflection. Instead, try seeing beyond what life is currently reflecting at you. Think, feel, and behave according to a vision beyond it. The mirror of life is a delayed reflection. Stop needing instant gratificaiton results.
Recently I've accomplished something that has troubled me for the majority of my life. Forgiveness. Towards the past people and myself.
Forgiveness has allowed me to release the past and be able to make the most of the present. It sounds illogical that something so vague can affect the present in a profound way, but it did for me.
I'm happy for you @elevate. Forgiveness is the key to set ourselves free from whatever burden people put on us.
The more you've been blessed in life the more you want to give back to others. Giving back to others gives you more blessings in return.
Even if you aren't feeling blessed right now, if you give to others, you're giving a signal to reality that you're someone that's blessed because you must be someone that's fortunate if you're able to give to others. It sounds like some weird spiritual hack, but it's worked for me.
The ego is a limiter that tries to protect you from feeling strong emotional volatility and energy. It places emotional guards on you.
It keeps you quiet / hidden / conserving energy / coping / protecting / lame / idle / content / indifferent / non expressive.
Going beyond those limits and emotional guards is where your best self is. The joyful, grateful, excited, enthusiastic, and committed version of you. The one that can express themselves intensely towards others. The one that goes beyond safety and comfort. That's the one that achieves their wildest desires and success. Go way beyond the limiters and emotional guards the ego keeps you trapped in.
This is the best thing I've ever worked on that has allowed me to reach my most enjoyable life and interactions with others.
I found and received love from others after I loved myself and gave love to others. Not by trying to take love from others out of lack.
I'm enjoying life. I've worked hard for it. I can attain so much more. Not with more effort, but with more conviction / resolve / intention.
I'm genuinely grateful, excited, and joyful about my life. It wasn't like this for most of my life. So I appreciate these days a lot.
When negative emotions arise you can lash out destructively, bottle them up (depressed), or channel them into something positive.
"I'll be happy if this happens... / I'll be enough if that happens..." will always reinforce the belief that you're never enough.
The state to be in is already enough, complete, and there. Accept where you currently are, with all your current progress, and know that you're working towards more... but let go of the "I'm not enough or there yet". Enjoy the process of growing rather than needing to be in the finish line of life. Experience the present moment.
Women don't magically look at me because of semen retention super powers. They look at me because I said hello.
