Dick size

Ok.

From someone who comes from 31 years of watching porn and feeling inadequate for this entire time.

You guys put WAY too much emphasis on how the woman might feel. WAY WAY WAY too much.
Where is the question on how you can make sex amazing for yourself?

Porn gave every single guy who is below average in size the impression that you aren't goint to satisfy a woman with what you have in your pants, because, lets face it, according to porn, all woman prefer a big dick.

And the more people watch it, the more in gets burned into our brains and the more we disconnect from reality. We think that what we see in those videos is the reality and we dont experience the reality by ourselves.
It is literally stopping us from enjoying one of the most beautiful things on this planet because we develop anxiety and even PIED later on IF we get to be with a girl.

Porn really is one of the most damaging things to our brain, especially when you consider yourself, (or maybe even are scientifically) below averarge, like i am, both in lenght and girth.

And what does that shit do to us? It fucks us up mentally and we become pussies who are afraid to talk to girls, let alone really beautiful ones.

But to everyone who is in this ballpark of having or thinking of having a small dick, fear not, there is a solution, which takes a lot of effort and needs to be developed until you have mastered it.

When you are with a woman, STOP thinking about what makes her happy the whole time and how she can feel awesome as your first priority. That is the most destructive and stupid mindset you can have as a guy when it comes to having amazing sex.

Every single time i tried to please the woman i was with, i failed miserably. And i heard from a girl "thats it?" just in regards to my size as well.
But fear not, because that is one of the best sentences you can ever hear from a girl at all. And why is that?
It shows you very clearly that she isnt going to be good for you. If you put your own happiness first, she just did one of the strongest disqualifiers possible. She showed you that she cares more for the size of your dick then she actually cares for you.

"Thank you. Thank you so much for saying this now. You saved us both so much time, and i hope you find the one who is the right one for you, good bye"

And on top of that, what about yourself? How does it feel for you when you are inside her? Does it feel good? Do you feel satisfied? If not, would you ask her to do kegels to see if she can improve the sex for both of you?

I am not saying you aren't supposed to learn how to become gods with oral sex, how to become an amazing kisser, learn how to tease her, learn how to touch her, and all in all learn everything you possibly can to make her feel good. LEARN ALL OF THAT AND MAKE HER FEEL AMAZING. That is your gift to the girl who chooses to be with you.

And if she doesn't like it rough, often times she just doesn't feel comfortable with the guy. A girl that is 100% relaxed, comfortable and trusts his man, will also be much more open to being submissive as the dominant male energy can be something that is needed and nuriting for both the female and the male in the bedroom.
There is nothing wrong with that kind of sex. It is probably one of the hottest ways you can have sex btw.
And that has nothing to do with the size of your dick, i know this because i experienced this.
If you set the tone in the relationship, be a man the woman can trust, and feels save with, chances are she WANTS to submit to you.
That doesnt mean you dont value her opinion, you take advantage of her or you think she is less valuable then you are.
Woman are the yin to our yang. They female energy nurtures us and makes us feel amazing as a man.

And from my experience, if you know what you want as a guy, in life, with women, inside and outside the bedroom, there are a lot of girls who will gladly take that place by your side and are happy with it.

Why do you think girls are attracted to "Bad Boys"? Because they put themself first. They know what they want. And girls can relax if they dont have to worry about that shit. And that is what attracts them to it. The "idgaf" attitude.

I am not saying become that becoming a bad boy is the goal here. But you must put your own happiness first to be happy in life. You cant expect from someone else to make you happy, that is not their job.

When you meet a girl, dont try to impress her. Have a conversation about what kind of interests she has and what kind of person she is. If she is interested in you, she will ask you as well. Sometimes you get deep rapport, sometimes you instantly are turned off. We dont have to pick up everthing with a skirt on. Pick up the one that is good for you.
And if you do, and you both are happy with yourself before going into the relationship, that sets the tone for a long lasting story.

Become a master with your dick mate. Learn what you want. Learn how to give. Give with your heart and soul.

But put your own happiness first.



PS: I could ramble on more but for everyone who wants more info, feel free to pm me

 

14-15cm is normal average man penis size..if you have longer than 17cm I don't think you can go fully inside as it is not deep enough there.

 

Lol man 13 / 14 is the average penis size, why wouldn't you please a woman with it?
Yes it looks pretty small close to the porn actors dicks but they are just unhuman. Almost every woman will feel discomfort having sex with them, it's not pleasurable.

 

Uhm... that is very much up to the woman mate. My friend has those "Pornstar"-looks, being very tall, good looking, with a lot of muscles and a big dick. And he doesnt really have to look for girls. They come to him. It's fkn bs that woman generally will feel discomfort with a bigger dick. It's totally depending on the woman.
I would say the majority are probably happiest with a regular sized dick at around 15--16cm, and also is a bit above average in thiccccness.

But its our fucking duty not to look at my friend and cry that he has it easier, its our fucking job to improve our own shit and fucking find a way that works for us.
I struggled my whole life with this shit because i am below average, especially in girth. But no woman gives a shit about a guy crying about his dick.
They want someone who is happy with whatever they have, and be a fkn man.
Of course its a bonus if the dick is the size the wishes for. But its a bonus. Not a necessity.
And for the few woman where it is a necessity, its healthier for both of you to stop it right from the start.
Cause neither of you will be happy in the long run.
Focus on yourself and learn how to become a sex god with whatever you have.
Learn to give her so much pleasure and the feeling of being valued as a woman that she wants your dick, just for the sake that she wants YOU inside of HER.

 

Amen to everything that ReclaimedLife just wrote!

We have to face the facts. Women have the majority of their nerves around the opening (which is why girth is important) but many of them also enjoy the sensation of the penis hitting the cervix, and some even need that to orgasm. Sorry to the shorter guys (myself included), but if you don't have 15 to 16cm, you're not going to reach the cervix!

Some good news is that some women find the sensation of the penis hitting the cervix uncomfortable, so these women actually would find a long penis to be uncomfortable and would prefer something a little shorter

At 11.5 cm and average girth, I would probably never fully satisfy 85% of women with penetrative sex. So what?

I may also never satisfy women who prefer guys with dark skin, musical talent, or a big truck. Those things aren't me either.

I could list my "positive" attributes, but I think you get the point. I only need to be with one woman, some one who wants to be with me because they love or accept every part of me.

I'm a package deal. And if the size of my package is a deal breaker, then I'll move on. If not, I will do everything I can to make her feel special and loved and to give her sexual pleasure with what I have to offer.

 

Have you heard about jelqing? I've never tried it myself but I do know it is real

 

I have done that actually, for roughly 3 months. It works, but it costs a lot of time and dedication. And i cant remember whether i had any gains for the girth. And i wouldnt do it just to get more lenght.
I might try it again after finishing my 90 days, because you are essentially "playing" with your dick when you are doing it. While you are "exercising", it is still arousing, at least it was to me, and i don't want that right now.
In General, i would recommend it though. If done correctly it can slightly increase the size of your D.

But think about it psychologically.
It is much better to accept yourself first the way you are right now, and only after that point, you should do the jelquing.
If you only do the jelquing to please a woman later, you have a really bad motivation and probably won't stick to it long-term.

Learn to accept youself as you are, find a woman who likes you the way you are and AFTER that, start jelquing.
Chnaces are, you forgot that the possibility of jelquing existed.

And you are also forgetting that the woman can just do kegels once a day for 10 minutes.
Both of you beneift WAY more from that then you having to do the jelquing for 45-60minutes every 2nd to 3rd day.

 

Lol I don't know where you got that data about woman , but the ones I know hate despise the dick touching their cervix. Do you know that it can damaged the cervix and it's shape? Can cause inflamations and collica. It hurts not feels good. I sincere never heard about one liking it. But there is taste for everything.
Go to a gynecologist and ask about that.
A penis to big will even stretch the woman pelvic floor and cause a lot of problems in the long run.