Becoming a better man, see women as something different as sexual objects, free myself from devil energy so therefore attract good things into my life, to have higher vibration, to know myself in a way I don't know myself because I never had a chance to know that part of myself (because of porn and fap), to restore my brain into greatness, and so on.
To not ruin my sexual health with pmo. .I don't to be a 21 yo male with a sexual abilities of a 70 yo.
To improve my mental wellbeing and become more confident/energetic. To not feel embarrassed of a habit.
It's an easy choice for me, even though I've never made it past 2 weeks (it's been a longlasting and hard habit to break), everytime I hit the 7-14 day period (sometimes sooner), I'm full of energy, I'm clear headed and absent of brain fog, I'm positive, I'm motivated, I socialize in such a way that people seem to gravitate towards me, music sounds better, and life overall feels like it's worth living. Under PMO, the exact opposite of everything I mentioned.
# One of the hidden part of my personality is PMO addiction. I want to eliminate that for good, better health, peace of mind. # Not to see women as an object of sex, to look her in the eye. Years of watching porn conditioned my mind automatically process the visual from eyes sexually like " oh she has a huge ......." and I am aware of that now. I want to eliminate that way of thinking conditioned by porn. # To release the trauma, pain, shame, guilt, regret, to forgive me. To feel myself again, my body and mind without brain fog, with a clear mind.
Women attraction, confidence, feeling more masculine + higher testosterone, good sex (no shitty sexual dysfunctions), better brain, less stupid, more mental clarity, more attractive to people in general, more magical life because no longer a fucking pervert, higher creativity, more spiritual and overall healthier both mentally and physically.That's enough.
Have more time with my life, remove a stupid “comfort” from my life which I used instead of confronting problems and doing what needed to be done, cure PIED.
To be the best version of myself. To enjoy amazing sex. To feel like a healthy man. To get the energy and confidence I need to achieve my dreams. To show the woman I love how much she means to me. And to not feel like a weak, lazy, low mood lesser version of myself!
Getting all the miracle benefits that can only be achieved through NoFap. I seriously believe in that. I had a streak of 90 days and in the first 2 weeks of my streak, I already felt the miraculous benefits. Those 90 days were the best days and decisions made in my life. Sadly, this demon got me again and I went back to zero. Attempted again for countless times. Now I’m burning up with dedication. Trust me. The benefits are real. You will feel it. You won’t truly believe unless you try it yourself. It’s real magic. Read threads in “Successful stories” They are all real
Had ED with my partner (25 years old) It really got me down and then just caused more issues when we tried again. I put it down to just being anxious about moving house. But its caused significant strain on my girlfriend and our relationship.
1. Individual: - peace of mind, less fear and anxiety, - better self esteem, - not to look at women as an object of sex, - release shame and guilt, - learning to cope with pressure and stress in a healthy ways, - having more life energy. 2. In relationship to the person I married - better marriage: - being honest to my wife, - being faithful to her also in my heart, - treating her with love and respect she deserves as wife and mother of our kids, - less conflicts with her. 3. In relationship with her and others: - handling better emotions, like anger management
