you need a real life goal

Why do we find it so hard to stay motivated?, why is it so easy to give in?, the reason i find i fail a lot or even have the mindset of failing is when i have no goal, i have nothing to hold on to and shoot for, sheer willpower alone will not see you through by itself, but if you have a purpose in life you can poor all your desires twords that. I am moving in 3 months, away from my house, my parents, my home town, my old dog will likely die when i am gone, so this is a big thing for me, and this is something i cannot go into without being free from pmo. I realize 3 months is not a full reboot but it will get my mind exactly where i need it to be, i cant go into this an addict, it just will never work, so that is my goal, my reason to quit, and when i dedicated to this all my hesitation went away. Another thing that keeps me strong is i dont want to keep objectifying women, i was watching anime earlier and one of the girls was a slave and raped, the old me would have gone to rule34 and looked at all kinds of porn for her, but i want nothing to do with that anymore, what would that girl think if she knew i was masturbating to her even after all the shit people put her through?, i am no better than those rapists honestly when i do pathetic shit like that.