not quitting

I'm sorry to hear this man. The most important thing to do right now is to stop the binge cycle at any cost. You just undust yourself and start new streak..im having a lots of free time these days..just message me at anytime you feel an urge. .together we wil make it happen. I'm glad that you didn't quit this site..you didn't fail until you stop trying .

No you aren't .you are a great person and as long as you are filled with sincere desire to quit this shit ..you will make it happen eventually. I believe in you bro..i hope you can see clearly now that pmo is just a bunch of shit and you need to throw it away to where it belongs..the trash .

 

Glad to have you here.

 

I stumbled on this site ytd, sort of browsed through the site and guidelines. As you used the word 'quit' couple times, I wanna share with you that I found the ' rebooting' idea more approachable. I am more confident to make it than ever before.

I never can restrain from fapping for more than 6 days. Not a successful example...just sharing. Wish you Good luck!

 

You’re not a fool. Don’t beat yourself up. I do the same thing after relapsing. I try to retrace my steps to figure out “why the hell did I do that??” I never have a logical reason. Just get back up and learn from it. The key is to not submit the the psubs and triggers not one inch or it’ll just pull you down all the way.

 

Hi brother, glad to see you back here. Hope you get soon on track. Now, I think I am doing a little better than before, at this staying out of this cycle for a while and I have already beaten my earlier streak this time around. There are some stuff that helped me reach here. They were nothing but questions I asked myself, and more importantly, the honest answers I gave to myself for them. If they were of any help to you at all, This is what I asked myself :

Where do I see myself going with all of this fog, in my life ?
Where would all of this dumb shit take me to ?
Why am I coming back to this ? (For example: I was always so bored, so I kept coming back to Porn due to the dopamine rush it gave me)
Is it really worth watching ?
Why am I quitting ? How is it going to benefit me ?
Am I really determined to quit it once and for all right now, exactly at this trial ?
because, you have already been (infact everyone here have been) doing a lot of short trials, like keeping yourself out for, say 5 days, a week ? I mean that's actually so good, but it is not enough. When people come over to this website, they are actually coming to quit this once and for all, and when they figure out that just like building up any other skill, this requires patience and consistent work, they start becoming a little bit relieved of the stress that they had before they decided to come here. Now, we all after doing it for a while ( The cycle of "Abstain-Watch-Fap-Repeat" ) we are okay with that cycle, that has become our new normal grade now. Your periods of abstaining from PMO would increase, now this is where most of us are just stopping. We haven't accomplished our Mission. We haven't done what we came looking for ! We came here to quit this once and for all. So, let's not make up excuses and try to work up our levels.
I would not say it would be easy, but, Things worthy of greatness don't come up to us easily. There might be mighty triggers, deadly woods, but remember, anything that's standing between you and your success is an obstacle. Break it out, climb to the top. Make it up the summit. Always remember, I am here to help you and everyone else out here, just like the others are, for we are here to support each other. Feel free to PM, me if at all you feel like talking, Don't worry at all. You will surely make it to the top.

Now, I have posted something about this "levelling up" here , read it if you're interested.

Wish you good luck, be strong, be cool, and be yourself for you are BravelyKegger. CHEERS,