If your goal is the quit porn forever You will fail if you do not know this

I am going to disagree with this as well. Sexual release is not a necessity to live. I am in Sexaholics Anonymous where we believe in abstenance towards all sexual behavior other than within the capacity of sex with ones spouse. We take a little bit more of an extreme stance towards abstaining because a lot of us have actual addictions to sex and not just PMO. While I am relatively new to the program, there are several single guys in my group who have been sexually sober for 5+ years, sexually sober meaning they don’t masturbate, look at porn, or have sex with anybody.

As others have said above, our bodies can find release through nocturnal emissions/wet dreams. Masturbation/sex is not a necessity to healthy living.

If you believe that masturbation is what keeps you from porn then go for it, but to say that the only way anybody can stay away from porn is through sex and/or masturbation is incorrect.

 

Which is wet dreams or real sex..not fapping.
Porn and fapping..both are the eniemes for your masculinity and sexuality.

 

I don't necessarily agree with this. But I have yet to experience monkmode for at least one year, so who am I to say this

 

The issue is starts to become a real endurance test. Yes real sex is the goal but if you don't have a partner or focusing on other area in life IE jobs. A partner is not an option

I have dated briefly but it ended, I just wasn't ready for a relationship.

Reading brain on porn - no one where does it say to stop masterbation forever. For a while yes, to the point were you don't need to think of porn any more to do it.

If you thinking of porn when masterbating then there's no point

I'm trying to say not jack off everyday here but if you can go 90+ days without PMO, you can bring it in until you able to get a partner

 

lol.

 

You don't get me..imagine porn doesn't even exist..i still think fapping is bad..yes..im one of those crazy radical fapstrounats !!

 

I am with you

 

I get what your saying, I mean to say imaging porn while fapping is the same thing. Don't do it

Right now I'm planning to go full 90 days again with out PMO and see whats the next step for me

At the end of day we just trying to improve our self and live a better life

 

Exactly, see whats best for you. everyone is different but do give your self time to cool off. That's why 90 days are so important.

 

I think the right time to M is only once you have rebooted yourself and then only done very infrequently.

 

And what's the point?! You just drain your life force for a fantasy in a tissue !

 

Look man..i totally respect you and I accept that you have different opinion . I just want to help you . Do you really think fapping off is that cool and masculine ?!.
When you bust a nut you are almost done for the day. Why not using this energy to date real women..or become more successful in our lives(working out..bussiness ..hobbies. etc)

 

Yes ..semen is your life force. Why drain it for no reason?. You just become tired and drained afterwards for no reason.. you could use your energy to do more productive things with your life rather than simply drain it in a tissue or the toilet. draining it..again for no reason!!