Hello everyone, I was introduced to porn by a so-called "friend" (if he was, he would not have introduced me to porn). There was a rush of dopamine in my brain and the feeling was, 'Yes, this is it.' This was 11 years ago. Since then I was addicted to PORN. It ruined most of the things. I wanted to talk to girls, but couldn't, I wanted to be good at everything ( sports, studies, extra-curricular, etc) but couldn't, all the no thanks to PORN. You get where I am going. Skip 11 years and to past 40 days. I read the NoFap- getting started guide and voila- I knew how to control, and discipline myself and what I would achieve if I do that. I am getting more looks from girls. Few of them have already asked me out ( yes I am from India and it's a big deal here if a girl asks a guy out here). I am learning a European Language and find it easy to remember and recollect vocabulary, sentence structures, and grammar. I have been working out for the past 6 months and feel more energy during the workout ( of course, because of all the testosterone isn't wasted on the thoughts of Julia Ann, Phoenix Marie, Brandi Love, Alleta Ocean, Madison Ivy or Nicole Aniston and it would have never ended, if I would not have wanted it to end). You have to trust me, guys. This works!! You will also achieve all the things that you thought were difficult or need effort. Just believe in yourself that you can do it and start working towards it. REMEMBER!!! WE WERE ALWAYS TAUGHT THAT INSPIRATION ACTIVATES MOTIVATION WHICH IN TURN MAKES US ACT OVER IT. I BELIEVE SOMETHING ELSE. MY THEORY IS-- ACTION --> INSPIRATION --> MOTIVATION --> IMPROVED ACTION SO START BY TAKING ACTION.!!
They will be..as they might motivate them to do what I did...and also consider at the same time that people are going through exactly what they are..
Great story. Keep it up! May I know which language are you learning? I also want to learn a new language but, I'm not sure which language I should learn?
YOOO. We both at 46 days! People say that thoughts precede action but I also think that actions can also precede thought. Just like if you smile for 10 seconds you will feel a little happier. Try it out. Sometimes before I felt motivated, I had to do actions in order to feel motivated. Then progress came. Stay patient with nofap brother, and I am happy to see the success you found from it!
I think I have seen that theory of yours in The subtle art of not giving a fu*k and it is an awesome book to read and understand. And congratulation for getting what you really wanted. And good luck with the girls.