balance - hierarchy of command/control

After 2 years of fighting PMO, I feel like there is a strange way we humans act. We make decisions everyday, and where does the thoughts come from? I personally think we control ourselves with 3 parts: Body, brain(mind) and soul(spirit), and there is a hierarchy in that.

Body is your flesh, no need explain

Brain(spirit) is your natural desire, your instinct (food ,survive, reproduce, etc) In this case, desiring PMO simply because you don't have a sexual partner/your partner doesn't fulfil your desire, and this is natural. This is the "animal part" of human

Soul(spirit) is something different. Soul is more like our consciousness, who we see ourselves as. This is the thing that makes us "human"(in my opinion). During PMO, our willpower to stop fapping is comes from here

the order is usually like this: brain ≥ soul ≥body

Doing nofap and all the mindfulness thing makes it change to this: soul ≥ brain ≥body

In that case you will have full control over your own body and own life, as your soul/spirit is able to resist the natural and primitive instinct.