I am embarrassed by my weird fetishes

the only way to feel better is to abstain

 

Yea fetishes are normal with porn users. After youve been pmo free for a while, those urges will start to fade.

 

Fetish as in ”I have a thing for middle aged men dressed as horses, jumping around in leather horse costumes whipping eachother”

Or fetish as in ”I only like short women” or something similar?


You see, some fetishes are induced by P, and some, just like you mentioned, are more like a preference that you are born with.

Looking at myself, I have had a thing for chubby and even fat girls for as long as I can remember, maybe since I was like 6 years old, because in my point of view, they are beautiful.
This is not a fetish, its my taste.

But, this preference of mine has taken me to weird places on the web, where these preferences easily ”evolves” into bizarre things, like ”vore” fetishism wich I was never into, ”feederism”, and all kinds of weird stuff.

What I do know, is that none of these fetishes is what I like, but my preference on the other hand, thats my real, honest and non-disturbing taste.

 

These fetishes will fade away if you sustain from PMO. If you keep feeding them, then they are not going to go away.

I used to have all kinds of fetishes but they went away and I realized that I do not give a rats ass about them and it is not me. After sustaining I realized that I crave for romance not these fetishes so just hang in there and slowly they will go away. Do not give in and feed them

 

I find with some of them, they 'resonate' with things in your core development periods like 3-7. If you trace the hidden secret needs they are fulfilling and or transforming into pleasure, you can look to other healthier ways of answering those. It won't stop the cravings for the learned neural pathways for dopamine steering to releases, but it can take the sting and power out of them, even just to recognise what might be a recreation of repeated and conditioned emotional response or situation and thus familiar feelings associated with love/bonding/connecting or singular impactful event that led you to a resolving conclusion, perhaps with that 'safety'/security . Whether by design, perfect storms, faults or blames.

 

Those are the probably the most common types of fetishes. Dont be embarrassed

 

I've always had a foot fetish ever since I can remember and i doubt it will ever go away.

However that's not the fetish that really worries me most women find it interesting and enjoy it as well