Problems during sexual intercourse

I’ve too always had issues getting or keeping an erection! No matter what I tried - different times of day, drunk, being more raunchy... me and my GF try everything and she is really understanding but always the same result - we know I can get hard during handjobs/Oral etc but as soon as my cock has no stimulation it goes down. When I start to have sex it’s almost as if it isn’t wanting to stay hard and I’m not even thinking about it going down either! Here’s the thing - I thought this was because of porn, fetishes etc but earlier this week and the times we have tried I used ED pill and I didn’t even think about porn or fetishes it was just magical! But I was always told you need to be turned on for V to work.

it’s almost as if the blood flow is weak staying in my penis when it doesn’t get assisted but why it can’t do it without the pills if I do get turned on just as much?

 

Well honestly i think for us folks with PIED soft mode won't work, avoid even glancing at porn to check if it still works, these are all tricks your mind plays to get any hit of dopamine it can, try talking with her about this and if possible go no PMO, it's gonna take time unfortunately, if your lucky it will be around 3-4 months or else 7-8 months to a year maybe. I'm going hard mode and it's been almost 90 days but it's pretty weird actually, some days I'm horny and some days I'm flatlining....doing this on hard mode is the best remedy anyway so let's push on. I hope you recover soon brother, SO's who understand you at these addictions and support you through are priceless so go hardmode but don't lose her! All the best !

 

Bro it is just a performance anxity nothing else because u have fear to perform well with your gf nothing else. don't pressure your mind to think so much. i also suffering from same situation and i did not masturbate from 3 months.