Hello! Newbie here! Looking to end a decade+ addiction.

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by That biker guy, Feb 26, 2020.

  1. That biker guy

    That biker guy Fapstronaut

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    I have been using porn since I was 12. I am now in my late twenties. I didnt think it was a problem until recently. I have had conversations with my buddies about it and they pointed out that it might be un natural how much I used it. I thought everybody did and that it was normal until I talked with them. I am in a strong relationship of 5 years and looking to marry this lady I have known her since I was 16. I have spent alot of time and money on porn and I want to get my life back and be in control of my money and not waste it on pixels. That being said I am on day 0 and want to start a 90 reboot. I am currently 6 hours without porn. I know it isnt much but you have to start somewhere.
     
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  2. STopthedrug

    STopthedrug Fapstronaut

    Congrats on getting this journey started. I'm am excited for you and proud of your decision. You can do it.
     
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  3. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!


    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/ Set up your day counter / Rebooting Resources/ About NoFap/ Support NoFap


    Here is just some advice:


    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)


    Then secondly I just advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.


    Theres a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and give some help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!


    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal/log (in the appropriate section for you) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.


    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  4. Zornaddickt

    Zornaddickt Fapstronaut

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    Congrats man! Stay focused and you can do it! I’ve made it to day 21 and I never ever would have thought this was possible
     
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