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Are you people happier now?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Kligor, Feb 26, 2020.

  1. Feb 26, 2020 #1
    Kligor

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    Every day when i avoid PMO each day after day i feel happier.I remember when i was kid,even picture or thing or joke which is not very funny could make me smile.Now is very similar,sometimes i can laugh even if nothing happens.I really like that feeling.I just want to find someone in life to share my happiness and love with.
     
    Kligor, Feb 26, 2020
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  2. Feb 26, 2020 #2
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    Because, your brain is rewiring itself and your chemical balance is becoming how it used to be.
    It means, your recovery strategy and progress is good. You are actually recovering.
     
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  3. Feb 26, 2020 #3
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    I am feeling the same. I feel joy from doing things in my life, for example:
    studying,
    drinking coffe,
    reading books,
    talking with others
    and lot more.
    Because I rewired my brain to feel pleasure from different sources. And that is the change for the better.
    The more you abstain, the more you will experience in life.
     
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  4. Feb 26, 2020 #4
    Spiderwaffle

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    I feel that too. Music sounds better, food tastes better, humans feel nicer, things look more interesting, everything is more inspiring...
    But there are also emotions that feel bad and get you distracted and challenges you have to overcome, but that's the spirit!

    In average, yes. I would say I'm happier!
     
    Spiderwaffle, Feb 26, 2020
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  5. Feb 26, 2020 #5
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    Yeah, brain is in normal state now.
     
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  6. Feb 26, 2020 #6
    untunedguitar

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    Same! I've always been socially awkward but these past weeks I felt a bit more confident in class and around people. Awkwardness still shows up and I have a long way ahead but I can feel a change! I'm also more determined and willing to do things as opposed to the constant feeling of apathy and laziness when I was PMOing.
     
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  7. Feb 26, 2020 #7
    Kligor

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    Thanks buddy,after 530+ days of nofap hardmode i can say only this is worth.I think this is might best decisions of my life.

    Hi buddy,for me music sounds amazing now,food still the same for me,yes i have higher tolerance and more patient for people now,i m more immune to cold and hot temperatures,much less sick,even if i got cold duration is few days,it's very hard now to get angry and lost control so easy.For first time in life i can solve problems with people without being angry or yell.I love that shiny eyes now :)
     
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  8. Feb 26, 2020 #8
    Kligor

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    Somehow after person quit PMO that person become more confident,less nervous and more motivated.That might be because after you stop PMO you feel no shame(about that)you gain more energy how time is going,might because of semen retention.Become a happier because dopamine levels goes back to normal levels.When someone watch porn he got crazy dopamine rush.
    After i started nofap,i just asked myself "Hey,anyway you gonna die someday,do good and worth things with your time,do how you think it needs to be,ignore toxic people and don't give a shit what anybody thinks.People will hate you no matter how good or bad you are,if someone want to hate you he will".
     
    Kligor, Feb 26, 2020
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  9. Feb 28, 2020 #9
    domsi

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    im not happier, but i avoid the feeling of complete failure that masturbation to porn causes me, which makes it worth doing.
     
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  10. Feb 28, 2020 #10
    make_change

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    Domsi you will eventually see the benefits keep going! Its a double win. Sometimes we cant recognise them straight away
     
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  11. Feb 29, 2020 #11
    domsi

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    i do have benefits, but happiness isnt a constant state, the best we can and should aim for is a sense of inner peace and satisfaction with your in life, and if these two are missing, we need to work to attain them. thats why im doing nofap.
     
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  12. Feb 29, 2020 #12
    Nucleus

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    I’m with you. I’m suddenly interested in new things and my older interests are renewed.

    Im enjoying reading. I’m enjoying writing, including here.

    Wife tells me I’m much more chilled.
     
    Nucleus, Feb 29, 2020
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  13. Mar 1, 2020 #13
    Control it man

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    domsi i think it might require a bit more time,
    so keep up the good workkkk !!!!
     
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  14. Mar 1, 2020 #14
    FY_33

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    Well yeah me too, but its challenging to control emotion while sexual need not fulfilled(in the past usually trough M)
     
    FY_33, Mar 1, 2020
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