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Marry or not to marry?

A group for porn addicts in relationships

  1. Jun 27, 2020 #1
    Shyguy96

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    Just a few weeks before my marriage and still can't stop... I don't know what to do ... I feel like I should delay my marriage...
     
    Shyguy96, Jun 27, 2020
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  2. Jun 27, 2020 #2
    kropo82

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    Have you told her? Does she want to delay the marriage?
     
    kropo82, Jun 27, 2020
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  3. Jun 27, 2020 #3
    Shyguy96

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    No. Its complicated... but she doesn't know to answer your question
     
    Shyguy96, Jun 27, 2020
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  4. Jun 27, 2020 #4
    kropo82

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    She deserves to know. Man up and tell her. Trying to do this without her support will be too difficult. It is important that eventually you are quiting porn for yourself, but at the start knowing that you are doing it for the woman you love gives you layers of support. Otherwise your recovery work is one more secret you are keeping from her.
     
    kropo82, Jun 27, 2020
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    StayFocused and (deleted member) like this.
  5. Aug 2, 2020 #5
    bamboleo

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    Agree 100 % with @kropo82 . Plus, don't delay your marriage because of Porn. Why would you cancel something so beautiful and good for something so bad as Porn? Your marriage will help you even more with this. Don't cancel because of Porn.
     
    bamboleo, Aug 2, 2020
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  6. Aug 5, 2020 #6
    Shyguy96

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    I really don't want my addiction to have an effect on my wife nor do i want her to know about it ... I just want to heal before marriage happens...
     
    Shyguy96, Aug 5, 2020
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