I relapsed today after 14 days. I know the problem, just have to attack it head on. Hoping for 30-1 this month.
Jumping in here, because I want to become a little more accountable. I know it's late in the month but I've got 3 days away from PMO and want to keep this streak going
18 yrs old, started PMO'ing at 8. Never got past 15 days, I'm joining late but I can still get a good lil streak going within this month. Come on now, let's do it.
I did MO on the 3rd of July. But I've been clean since. Although my goal is no P or M ever, for this thread I am committing to hard mode for the rest of July which will leave me around 15 days of orgasm free abstinence. I'll likely try to connect with my spouse in the first week of AUG provided certain emotional and stress barriers aren't in the way. PMO Free since 3 July. Relationship O free since 16 July. Hard mode engaged....
Day 1. I’m getting back on the horse. At times caught myself being in the search feed on IG just looking for smth entertaining out of boredom and quickly left it. Took a cold shower, re-arranged my room and got it ready for re-construction, meditated, some self care and made music. Mind is still having sexual thoughts more than usual, as always after relapses.
I'm starting late in the month, but that's all right. I would like to participate in this challenge. I've just recently discovered a problem, and I believe I've narrowed it down to PIED. For that reason, I've decided to quit porn altogether and try out this whole rebooting process. My partner and I have recently begun getting intimate with one another, and we both noticed that for some odd reason, the little guy wouldn't stay up. I was perplexed by this because I know deep down that I am in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. I got frustrated and felt like I wasn't good enough, but more importantly, she felt like she wasn't good enough. I'm not about to let her continue to feel that way. I am determined to reboot and follow through. No porn, no PSUBs, none of that. I'll start with one month, and we will go from there. After this month, hopefully I will have regained the ability to "keep it up" when my partner and I get intimate. If not, I will still press on.
How do I set up and update a counter for my days? Please help. For some reason, the above links don't work.
literally hit the start button, all in the forum seems quite committed,...boosted my commitment too, lets see how far i can go
I would like to be a part of this commitment. PMo has ruined my consentration, life, career and family. I want it all back. I hope every one gets to there goal. Stay blessed
I will not allow myself to masturbate, view porn, or orgasm whatsoever I want to try this for at least a month, and keep continuing until the 90 day benchmark My goals are not far fetched, other than not masturbating, or viewing porn ever in my life I am doing this generally, to improve the quality of my life, and become the best version of myself
I broke my 21 days streak and have been relapsing every 3 day . Probably the lessons learnt in last 9 years fainted over 21 days. Again took resolve to go on Hard mode for next 90 days. One change over last time, i had stopped visiting this forum after 16-18 days due to over confidence that i can pull off. But i guess i cant do it alone so i am back again and wil be on this forum every single day even if for 5 mins just to get a positive boost to maintain my resolve