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Is this a fetish? Or just totally the point?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by GripStrength, Jan 3, 2021.

  1. Jan 3, 2021 #1
    GripStrength

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    This idea is I guess amusing to me... Is it even possible to have a “fetish” for pregnancy. With all the porn brain bull crap. It seems like everyone is quick to calling anything a fetish.

    The idea of getting my girlfriend pregnant is by far the most exciting thing to me. It is something I actually want eventually. But I found myself being like “pregnancy fetish” in my head. But after thinking about it. I’m now like; That is literally impossible. That is not a fetish. That is literally what intercourse is for. That is literally what feeling aroused is for. That is literally WHY humans or any other animal feel these things in the first place... It’s the whole purpose! How could it be a fetish? I feel like that is just porn brain pulling out the word fetish as like some kind of automatic reaction to being aroused by something.

    Anyways. I sporadically told her to cut the birth control out and we both got very excited ha. I guess that’s why I posted it here. It’s risky behaviour. A risk of having a family with someone I care about more than anything and is the most supportive person I’ve met. Oh no! We’re still going to try to not make love during ovulation. But that probably won’t last. Just thought it was funny. Is this a new fetish of ours? Or are we just totally excited of the possibility of having a family together one day. I dunno! Who cares! Something felt very right about the decision.
     
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  2. Jan 3, 2021 #2
    Dizzy Lotus

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    There are probably people with a pregnancy fetish, though. But that doesn't mean they're aroused by the idea of impregnating someone, of course. It means that they're aroused by sex with pregnant women. Of course sex with a pregnant woman is not unnatural either, just like sex with a woman with feet isn't. [​IMG]
     
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  3. Jan 4, 2021 #3
    Davidphd1866

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    I love it most when people ask really good questions. This is perhaps one of the best questions I've seen written here.

    For my two cents: It's not a fetish, it's the point!

    So good on you. I hope you and your girlfriend marry and have a great family together.
     
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  4. Jan 4, 2021 #4
    GripStrength

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    Thanks a lot!
     
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  5. Jan 4, 2021 #5
    dragonaire

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    Get her pregnant and have a child
     
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  6. Jan 5, 2021 #6
    GripStrength

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    Deal!
     
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  7. Jan 7, 2021 #7
    The Passenger

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    I think like this too. The idea of getting my GF pregnant makes me feel more masculine or something. There are a lot of losers out there who bail on pregnant GFs, but have you ever noticed the guys who seem to walk taller, chest out etc when their wife/gf has a baby? They are probably thinking like us. It is our base purpose after all. It is quite a manly thing to reproduce and provide.

    Just make sure you have a good life to bring the child into and good luck.
     
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  8. Jan 7, 2021 #8
    Davidphd1866

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    You guys have no idea how encouraging it is for me to hear you guys talking about the desire, and pleasure in having your wife or girlfriend pregnant.

    That ship has sailed for me, but I am super supportive of you guys executing "The Point".
     
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  9. Jan 7, 2021 #9
    dragonaire

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    Maybe it hasnt sailed yet
     
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  10. Jan 8, 2021 #10
    Davidphd1866

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    Thank you Dragonaire. I appreciate the vote of confidence. I do genuinely support all of these guys, this is the right thing IF they chose a good woman who they plan to stay with.

    As for me, the deck is pretty well stacked against me right now..... 57 years old with a 58 year old wife, she remains angry about my former masturbation practices and has declared that I am not allowed in her vagina......So, I'd bet on the other guys first!

    Take care!
     
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