To have victory masturbation session or not?

We have no idea what struggle you're referring to. Is it not fapping? or not looking at porn? or having trouble getting a woman? so many topics have been mentioned in this thread.

He's saying that the guy shouldn't claim its not that hard, considering he has an advantage over us.

I bet even a kiss would help with fap urges.

Do you have a source for this? I do believe you, I just want to see if he wrote any additional information on this.

Because he said 4-5 months in his TedX video. That video is fucken amazing. You know how many times I've watched it?

I'm gonna keep mentioning this. I don't know if Alexander wrote this, but someone did:

http://www.nofap.com/about/

 

Haha if only you guys could see what CountryDude wrote to me.

Overall, Hard mode is self-discipline.

Jacking off to porn make you forget about your female problems. You take it away, then you have no choice but to face your problems head on.

Its like a pet animal being reintroduced into the wild. You have no easy food source, you gotta fend for yourself from now on.

Food source == sexual cravings.

He didn't really differentiate the two. "Hard Mode means neither fapping nor having sex (regardless of whether for 30 days or for life)". If you're not fapping for life, then you're on Life mode.

Both modes have 90 days of no orgasm.

After 90 days on Hard mode, you can reintroduce porn-less fapping and female responsible orgasms.

After 90 days on Life mode, you can reintroduce female responsible orgasms.

I doubt anyone on Hard mode here was planning to not jack off for the rest of their life. They may even go 2 years without jacking off, whatever seems necessary for their reboot. But not a life-long commitment.

Life mode is serious shiz. If you're going away on business for 3 months, and your woman won't be able to visit and relieve you, tough luck.

I am gonna try Life mode. Theres a couple reasons:
1. No forced ejaculations. When you fap, your body really forces itself to make you orgasm. False sex really tires out your dick.
2. You really prove how much your girl means to you. You let her have control over your highest ability to be aroused.
3. Orgasms are kept in moderation, and are only done in the highest rewarding ways.

 

So I just had victory fap. 3 jack offs.

I was laying on my bed, searching around my pelvis for my tight psoas muscle. I finally found it, and released it. Once it was released, there was a surge of sexual energy that I couldn't escape no matter what. All it took was 5 strokes until lift off.

If you wanna learn what your psoas muscle is, look here: http://blog.voltathletics.com/home/2015/3/25/psoas-talk-with-christye

I do feel like crap now, but I don't blame myself for doing it. That was one of the most powerful surges I've ever felt.

And I'm kinda scared. I gotta release more tight muscles around my pelvis, and that will probably give me more sexual energy. I want to begin abstinence again.

 

I also wanted to held out longer, but it just happened so fast. Like 10 seconds.

I loosened my psoas(its was tight for years), my dick shot up like a rocket, and extreme urges to blow a load.

I don't think my reboot counted. Because it was so easy for me, since my body wasn't in proper functioning order. Balls and wang didn't have proper circulation.

People may wonder how my psoas got so tight, when it tightens up when you sit too long:

But I can't wait to experience the surge again.

 

It took me like a week to find it. Theres so much other stuff around there, you gotta dig around.

If its tight, then you gotta find the tender spot on it, and press your fingers against that spot for a whole minute.

This is the video that finally helped me find it:

I know those cravings. Your dick is begging, "just one more time please"

 

Common, enough fap shaming.

I went 3 months without doing it. The last time I did that, was 7 years ago. Progress is progress.

 

Thanks brah, I'll watch it tonight.

 

I've returned.

First off, why did someone change the thread title from "victory fap" to "victory masturbation session"? it kinda feels like theres a moderator out there, who's trying too hard to prove himself worthy of being one.

Secondly, I've returned to PMOing. Before you say "how could you!!", you can't quit, without eliminating the reason why you do it in the first place. Even without fapping, I'll still feel lonely living in this stupid isolated village filled with grannies. It sucks enough being single, but when you also live 30 KM away from the nearest attractive female, you can't quit fapping without going insane. I gotta deal with my problems one-by-one.