I'm currently on a streak and I want to reach 180 days. Last year I tried this aswell but I relapsed on day 114 because I had a mental breakdown. I was wondering if I should buy a fleshlight after I've completed my 180 day journey. I've reached an insane level of horniness but I don't want to date a girl just so I can get off to her (so to speak).
No, it is a masturbation tool. Horniness comes and goes. You have done it before, so you can weather the storm.
Once you've recovered, why not? If your erections are fine then go for it! Probably better to get a girl though, can't beat the real thing!
I agree but it's not that straightforward. Getting a gf is quite difficult for me and even then you can't just have sex with her whenever you feel like it.
I think it sounds totally reasonable . . . if you think that will help you reach your goals. Maybe buy it now and look at it as a reminder of what you want to achieve. Maybe figure out how much it will cost to get one . . . then divide that number by 180, and put that amount into a piggy bank each day . . . then everyday you will be one step closer to getting that fleshlight.
True. But I think it could be of use to ease my sexual tension instead of PMO'ing. Maybe if I used it like once a week or something. Yes/No?
Question, how do you exactly use a fleshlight without Moing involved, without PO, ok.... but without Moing? is like...wanting to cook an egg without an egg...
Honestly dude I don't think its a good idea. 1. Because it's another form of artificial stimulation, and like you said earlier even if you got a girlfriend you can't have s*x with her all the time but you can always use the fleshlight, and that could lead to unhealthy sexual habits. 2. The reason you reboot is so that you eventually learn and fully experience what real s*x is and feels like. Its important that you have real s*x with as opposed to artificial s*x with a fleshlight. You don't even have to get a girlfriend you could just go somewhere to pick up girls.
You're correct. I fortuitously put those three together. However I don't think Moing to a fleshlight is necessarily bad. It's different than your hand so there would no death grip.
PMO PORN MASTURBATION ORGASM So you want to avoid those 3 things... what do you want a fleshlight for? To cover your dick when it's getting cold? Is this you or you addiction talking? Because seems like an "easy" way out which is just a trap in disguise. Go for a real woman instead
It's AFTER my reboot. Also, finding a woman isn't that simplistic. It's not like I can get one from my local grocery store. Having it to release sexual tension every now and then before finding a girl seems like a realistic solution.
Your choice. I would advice you to look date girls so you get to know some and maybe you are lucky. Or... you fuck some plastic to release your sexual tension. I think having some sexual tension is an advantage while dating and flirting because you can feel if someone is just nice or attracted to you physically.
Is like feeling the force, you can sense the force in people hahahaha Use that tension, it gives you focus, makes you strongeer
I would not suggest it. If its PMO addiction you're having i would of suggest you to try and avoid masturbation altogether. I am speaking from my kind of experience, i went to masturbate around 400 days of being PMO free months later i fell into the trap and had to do recovery once again. Sure it wasn't as hard as first time but either way was a painful experience. You cant really tell when are you going to be rebooted perhaps it doesnt take you 180 days, maybe it takes 250 ? Either way, it is a single road to go back to your old habits. You can deal with the big sexual tension you're having, but masturbation is not the sole way to direct it. Go biking, go running, jump a rope, buy a small car model and assemble it, learn a new skill. The list is huge to what you can shift your sexual tension. You dont feel horny all the time, right ? Once you're able to deal with your sexual tension is when you can with pure safety say that you are rebooted. Don't get the flashlight, you'll save yourself much more work. You will be okay, you wont die if you dont have sex or masturbation.