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Porn induced insecurities?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by ThisSideThatSide, Feb 24, 2021.

  1. ThisSideThatSide

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    i dont know if 'insecurity' is the right word for it, but has anyone developed any insecurities due to porn?
    all these beautiful women we see in porn, all these well built and fit men with huge dicks, ought to give us some insecurities.

    i personally, was insecure about my penis and height, both due to porn.
    i had these insecurities even after being a 6-incher and 5'9.

    i think what made me insecure about my penis was all those 8-inchers who do porn.
    usually, male pornstars have big penises, so began to think those people were more masculine and all..

    and my height insecurity might seem unrelated, but it started when i noticed a lot of pornstars (especially females) were taller.
    this was more than a year ago, when i was 16, so i was shorter (maybe 5'6 or something like that), so that made me quite uncomfortable..

    even now, more than 150 days into reboot, i still have these insecurities.
    if something so indirect and silly can bother me, i am sure a lot of people have similar problems.

    any tips on how to battle this?
     
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  2. a lot of people feel that way, that's one of the reasons so many men watch lesbian porn
     
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  3. ThisSideThatSide

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    yeah man, true.

    i think accepting reality is the best way to deal with it.
     
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  4. Kevster1993

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    Yes i had this for awhile. i compared my self to male porn stars. and thought i would not be enough for girls. it even caused ED.
    then i started to have sex with females, and i never had one complain about my size ever.
    remember most girls dont care about how big you are, thats something we Men care mostly about,

    and im pretty average 5.6 inch. and 5'7, so stop worry about it.
    accept that you're fine.

    i think im safe to say about 80% of all man are just average sized.
    so dont worry about it, dont think too much about it.
     
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  5. The Archangel

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    Same, I'm a little over 6 inches and I feel like my penis is small even though the average is like 5.5 or something. It's not just male porn stars though, it's also because so many people on reddit (and I guess online in general) say they have 7-9 inch penises (idk if they're lying or not, but they seem serious and even ask for advice regarding big penis issues). Guys on cam sites usually have big dicks and they aren't even porn stars, a lot of dudes on omegle had big penises, so yeah that's why I feel small I guess. Just realised how gay that sounds. Wasn't out looking to see some dick or anything lmao, these were just instances they popped up (anyone whos been on chaturbate and omegle would understand lol). I've never had a girl call me small, but they've never really called me big either.

    I'm only 5'7 and not even insecure about my height cause I use to outmuscle guys as tall as 6'4 in highschool and I'm into short, petite chicks - so I don't really care about attracting taller girls. Arguably the most ferocious boxer, Mike Tyson, was only 5'10 which is quite short for a heavyweight boxer, and he knocked out most taller and bigger opponents with ease. The White Death was a 5' Finnish sniper who single-handedly killed 500+ soviet attackers in just 100 days during WWII. Own your height dude.
     
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  6. ThisSideThatSide

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    thanks a lot man, this sure helped!



    hmm, maybe, i dont know much about reddit sorry.
    but yeah, you do make a point, we see something better and think ours is bad..

    yess!

    thanks bruh!
     
  7. Saythatagain

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    It’s really a screwed up perspective on penis size. I swear if you had an identical twin you would look over and each one of you would say the other is bigger, lol. The Internet seems to add 2-3” inches and the way guys measure is absolutely crazy. I would say most women are into what and how you treat them before the clothes come off.
     
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  8. ThePeakWae

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    Yeah that shit's fucked up got unexpectedly hooked on it when reading one manga I didnt expect to find it on. Recently I started painting the panels of the lesbian porn, it was fucked up, glad the series is over and put it behind the closet so to speak it's awful.
     
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  9. ThisSideThatSide

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    true!
     
  10. People in the porn industry work long hours. It’s completely fake. A normal 30 minute porn video takes about four hours to film. The men in porn are buff because they need to have constant stamina for the films. The men in porn also get fat injections to make the dick look bigger than it really is.

    The females get their makeup done by a professional makeup artist to hide any imperfections. Porn actors/actresses spend most of their free time working out to prepare for their next shoot.
     
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  11. Aswin palathingal

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    https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis

    Just Googled and found this..
    I am virgin and I don't even have a gf but still I think that love and sex are not about your physical dimensions..

    I have a erect size of 11 cms (4.33 inch) and height is 175 cms (5.8 feet).. i am not insecure about my physical aspects..
     
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  12. My erect length is 4 1/4" and I am 6'0" tall. I won't lie, I have had extreme insecurity about my penis size, but not so much anymore. I accept that I have a small penis but I am grateful for it's shape, the thickness and most grateful when it works properly!!

    I have a great body. It's the only one that I have. It's my job to love it and take good care of it.
     
  13. ThisSideThatSide

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    i know it is fake, but its like there is some part of me saying "why am i not as 'good' as they are?"..
    but i now know it is all bullshit. i must feel good about myself, and if anything, i must take some motivation from these guys and start working out.



    yeah man, i know my insecurities are baseless.




    i do really hope my insecurities also go away with time!






    thank you for the replies people!
     
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  14. I hear you bro, I also got a lot of insecurities because of Porn. Like, i did penis enlargement excersies and everything, and wanted so much to grow to feel... like worth of having a real woman.

    Still working on this, and figuring out how to do it. It's difficult alone
     
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  15. Candun

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    Whenever I watch the Avengers I get really jealous of Thor. I wish I had lightning powers...
     
  16. ThisSideThatSide

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    its okay bruh, dont worry too much.
    from what i hear, size doesnt matter much.
    these insecurities go away with time
     
  17. g2stop

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    Why do you need a huge penis? An average penis is more than enough. It only matters if you want to go for women with huge pussies
     
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  18. If I could choose, I would choose a woman with a huge pussy (especially huge labia) even though I have a smaller than average (4.25" erect length) penis.
    Is my preference for large labia porn induced?

    And, I wonder what porn induced insecurities women have . . .

    I have heard that many women get labiaplasty - to reduce the size of their labia! :eek:
    Where the hell does that idea come from?
     
  19. bjorkstadski222

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    They’ve got the same issues as us maybe. I always here my female friends worry about their stomach flatness , their butts and perfection of boobs.

    I know I have a small one. I usually joke about my penis size in front of everyone if the subject comes up lol

    I too have never had a complaint about it from women. I’ve also slept with black girls that didn’t complain. Foreplay is key!
     
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