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Redirecting your sexual energy is real

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Randombro, Mar 24, 2021.

  1. Randombro

    Randombro Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I didn’t ejaculate the last 30 days and today I was again extreme horny.
    I meditated and imagined to redirect this sexual energy to real life goals like workout and learning.
    After it I did a workout and had the best training of this year.
    I had way more power and could use more weights and do more reps.
    After my workout I began to learn for my exams and I am learning way more efficiently than before.
    I have no intrusive thoughts, I am highly concentrated (normally it’s hard for me to stay focused) and I can learn more stuff than before.
    If you would told me before some months that this is possible, I would never believe it.
    NoFap/ Semen retention is life changing!
     
  2. jacques_89

    jacques_89 Fapstronaut

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    Reading that after 30 days you already feel this positive gives me a lot of hope. I feel so close to the 30 days.
    And also being able to channel it into your workout is even greater. I personally love running and lately I have been increasing my PR, and every run feels easier, maybe it is also the No PMO.
    I congratulate you big time!!! Keep the energy up! :D
     
  3. Rev2.0

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    Can confirm. I'm on Day 66 of no PMO with daily cold showers and have been crushing my workouts the last couple of weeks especially. Pulled 3x5 of deadlifts yesterday at a weight I would have struggled to get off the ground for a single rep 9 months ago. Losing the midsection flab I put on in the cold weather and am sleeping better too.

    The women attraction thing hasn't happened and in fact my wife has been kind of bitchy to me lately so I'm not sure what's up there but I feel so good it's really just bouncing off me at this point. Keep it going!
     
    Last edited: Mar 24, 2021
  4. J053H32n4nd32

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    Yeah sex energy is real. I haven't watched porn in 7 days yesterday and I had the clarity of mind to type more on the YouTube comments. It's been 8 days that I'm off of porn and I feel way better then yesterday.
     
  5. Focus and sexual energy are our most important resources, you experienced how it is to be like an arrow. Now you know why PMO steal our focus and sexual energy and what is the opposite of PMO addiction. Stay on track, remember this moment during your reboot. Congrats !
     
  6. ZenAF

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    I've paid a lot of attention to this in my life. How do women react to me when I have full balls vs. empty balls. When I watch a lot of porn or no porn. When I have sex or no sex. I can confidently say: It does not matter.
    It's not the answer that's popular around here because people search for reasons to quit. But this in my experience just isn't one of them. I've had women giving me the look walking through the streets after I just pmo'd the third time that day. I've had women completely ignore me when I was 20 days "sober". There were just so many mixed results over the years that I had come to that conclusion.

    Yes, apparently you do have higher testosterone if you don't cum for three weeks and yes women like testosterone. But the effect is TINY.
    What really matters is how you carry yourself, are you worried in life or carefree, are you shy or confident, do you engage with them or not and in what way.

    They don't have some magical sensor that tells them whether your balls are full or empty. But they can sense your intentions better than most men are aware of. Do you just want to fuck or are you looking for something real? Are you needy or do you live in abundance. Are you being real or do you want to appear cool. And most importantly: How smooth are you at living life? Those are the things that really trigger them.
     
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