Sex? No thanks.

Last night, I spoke on the phone with a girl for 90 minutes. We had an engaging conversation. None of it involved sex. I am so close to her and I have never had sex with her. She is a knockout. She is a thin-framed brunette with big beautiful eyes, flawless teeth, amazing skin, and a body that most men would want to devour.

The fact that she has wanted me badly but that I haven't given it to her has been the foundation of our relationship for the past 4 months. She is not my girlfriend (yet), but I am seeing her exclusively. My nonchalance about sex and lack of desire for her in the way an alcoholic would crave another drink is what has created such fire between us. I actually care about her, not her pussy.

Why am I telling you this?

Because once you stop watching porn, once you stop masturbating, once you stop even letting your eyes hover the world aimlessly for the next girl's ass to check out, you totally reset your mind. A cup of coffee to you now is just as sexually stimulating as lesbian porn was to you then.

Defeating PMO like a boss has inspired me to defeat everything else. I used to be somewhat handsome, now girls do double-takes. It's adorable. I run 30-40 miles a week, lift crazy weights, sleep like a tiny fucking baby, hold my shoulders broadly, look people deeply into their eyes when I talk, keep my apartment spotless, have a great relationship with my family, smile all the time, recall perfectly the things of my distant memory, and stand up for myself. I am almost done with medical school. Shit used to be challenging, now it's a cakewalk. My 5-oclock shadow is even thicker.

If you're reading this, and you're still resetting, take a hard look at your life. How many more dumb fucking excuses are you going to make? Aren't you sick of this already?

Here are my recommendations:
1) Smartphone app: WayOfLife → helps you keep your habits and your commitments
2) YouTube: Les Brown → → This man changed my life.

Listen to the Les Brown tapes when you're driving or showering or whatever the fuck. Figure it out. Or, you know, keep making excuses that, "I'll do it later!!" Don't be a bitch. Man up, take responsibility for your life.

Lastly, remember: motivation is fickle and burns out as quickly as it set in. Commitment is long-lasting and the only true way to make small daily changes that, when added up, lead you to becoming a totally different man. You build your pyramid brick by brick, day by day. Get an iPhone app to form habits, listen to the Les Brown tapes, stop being an asshole.

 

If you think I'm "pitching" a free app and a free online video:
Don't get the app. Use a notepad and a pen.
Don't listen to Les Brown on YouTube. Use a therapist.

Whatever it is, BlueNotes, keep yourself accountable, use inspirational speakers, and stop being a negative prick.