Thinking about a woman a like - not some random fantasy!

Hell brothers, even though I’ve been reboot for 435 days today I’m still quite new to this forum and having read a lot of the stories on this forum I feel it’s cool ask anything related to the reboot, so I really just wanted to ask - after so long in reboot is it a bad thing to think about someone you like? No having random fantasies nor anything of the sort because certainly that isn’t what I’m doing. I’m not even thinking per se, I get a random thought about a particularly beautiful girl I’ve been in contact with who I very much like. But being in reboot I was frightened that I may mess up my progress if things happened between us. So it became problematic when I avoided certain q’s thst she was deliberately giving me and now I’m feeling like I want to do something about it. But should I do it now? I don’t want to mess up my streak.

This isn’t critical or anything I just came up in mind because I really like this girl a lot.

I would appreciate any feedback. Thanks brothers!

 

Thankyou guys so much for the responses. That kind of settled it in my head abit, perhaps I’m over thinking it. I mean this is all brand new to me right? So a slight discomfort here or there in terms of my steak and am I ready yet etc etc is what I’ve been thinking of. I mean whenever me and her text I start I get aroused straight away. Granted she did send me a picture the other day of herself wearing nothing but underwear so perhaps through neuro association that why I’m physically/mentally responding to her texting me that way. Perhaps I am still overthinking it, I don’t know. But you guys brought it with your responses and point of view which until now I hadn’t even considered. Like you said ‘what the point of rebooting if I’m not going to enjoy my life’. Thanks again.

 

That exactly where I’m staying vigilant bro. But as far as masturbation is concerned I’d rather out my penis in blender. But as you say I shouldn’t avoid meeting women otherwise why am I even doing this

 

I’m not stuck, I’ve fixed that part but what if she wants to invite me over and then puts it on me - do I just go all in?