Got married!

GeorgeJetson · May 19, 2022

This is definitely an inspiration! A wonderful success story! Though I'm a bit late to the party, congratulations!!

InvincibleWarrior417 · May 19, 2022

Bogor said: ↑

So, you all deserve some context.

I used to be a serial fapster. And I mean, doing it for 2 or 3 times a day, every single day without fail ever since my late teens. I am now 31-years old, and I made an account here a couple of years back and made on and off attempts at quitting cold turkey.

My fapping sessions sometimes involved porn or other online material that I found sexually appealing, but mostly my imagination, and sometimes even exhibitionist tendencies.

I had to drop out from university whilst pursuing a postgrad because my habits grew so bad that I was spending pretty much no time at all on studying. My hobbies dried up, I had a failed (long distance) relationship, and found myself going back to my country, and then the pandemic well and truly struck and I was left without a job for over a year.

My finances dried up because I had used up everything on my habits, which I think I best not detail too much due to triggering effects that may be caused on you guys, but mostly because I cringe talking about them and feel there is no benefit to it.

I managed to land myself a dreadfully boring but decent paying job for a year, but that was the best year I've had in a long time. That was because I got quite a lot of free time and decided to finally act, seriously with a view to get permanently cured from my addiction.

Using my newfound resolve and free time, I met the girl of my dreams, a girl who has her own insecurities and isn't afraid to share her thoughts with me. I felt myself opening up to her, the first time I've truly done that with anyone actually, and this really strengthened my resolve. We were not sexually involved at the time, because we decided to do that after marriage as part of my recovery process.

We got married in October and it has been great!

The effects of my previous habits remained during the first week when we were exploring each other sexually. I had a bit of a problem with ED, which she thankfully understood, but I can proudly confirm that that issue gradually went away and I honestly feel cured.

If you go through these forums and read about the experiences of others, you will find that ED is a common side effect of this wretched habit, and according to some researchers, more and more young people have been falling victim to this, most likely caused due to the ease of access to online porn and subsequent fapping habits.

To those who are in this, I say don't fret. I was a virgin until I turned 31, always had trouble talking to girls, had terrible self-confidence, always doubted myself and lost quite a lot of my useful skills due to my previous habits. I've wasted so much time and money, while a lot of my coworkers and friends of my age have achieved much, much more that I can imagine in their lives.

But, it's never too late. Ultimately, it's all up to each of us to take our lives by the scruff of the neck and try to lead it somewhere. I'm still careful with how I conduct myself, because I'm very aware that certain sediments of the addiction will always linger inside me. You could say that I'm in a permanent state of recovery.

I don't want to lose the things that I've worked so hard to achieve, the things that make me happy.
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Thanks brother for sharing your story. I am 29, and new to this site, for guys like me it’s very inspiring. All the best for your future.

Stp890 · Jun 3, 2022

Bogor said: ↑

So, you all deserve some context.

I used to be a serial fapster. And I mean, doing it for 2 or 3 times a day, every single day without fail ever since my late teens. I am now 31-years old, and I made an account here a couple of years back and made on and off attempts at quitting cold turkey.

My fapping sessions sometimes involved porn or other online material that I found sexually appealing, but mostly my imagination, and sometimes even exhibitionist tendencies.

I had to drop out from university whilst pursuing a postgrad because my habits grew so bad that I was spending pretty much no time at all on studying. My hobbies dried up, I had a failed (long distance) relationship, and found myself going back to my country, and then the pandemic well and truly struck and I was left without a job for over a year.

My finances dried up because I had used up everything on my habits, which I think I best not detail too much due to triggering effects that may be caused on you guys, but mostly because I cringe talking about them and feel there is no benefit to it.

I managed to land myself a dreadfully boring but decent paying job for a year, but that was the best year I've had in a long time. That was because I got quite a lot of free time and decided to finally act, seriously with a view to get permanently cured from my addiction.

Using my newfound resolve and free time, I met the girl of my dreams, a girl who has her own insecurities and isn't afraid to share her thoughts with me. I felt myself opening up to her, the first time I've truly done that with anyone actually, and this really strengthened my resolve. We were not sexually involved at the time, because we decided to do that after marriage as part of my recovery process.

We got married in October and it has been great!

The effects of my previous habits remained during the first week when we were exploring each other sexually. I had a bit of a problem with ED, which she thankfully understood, but I can proudly confirm that that issue gradually went away and I honestly feel cured.

If you go through these forums and read about the experiences of others, you will find that ED is a common side effect of this wretched habit, and according to some researchers, more and more young people have been falling victim to this, most likely caused due to the ease of access to online porn and subsequent fapping habits.

To those who are in this, I say don't fret. I was a virgin until I turned 31, always had trouble talking to girls, had terrible self-confidence, always doubted myself and lost quite a lot of my useful skills due to my previous habits. I've wasted so much time and money, while a lot of my coworkers and friends of my age have achieved much, much more that I can imagine in their lives.

But, it's never too late. Ultimately, it's all up to each of us to take our lives by the scruff of the neck and try to lead it somewhere. I'm still careful with how I conduct myself, because I'm very aware that certain sediments of the addiction will always linger inside me. You could say that I'm in a permanent state of recovery.

I don't want to lose the things that I've worked so hard to achieve, the things that make me happy.
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Congratulations,for your success bro.

Deleted Account · Jun 3, 2022

As others mentioned, we have similar stories, so its nice to hear positive results coming from similar backgrounds. Yes, we're all different and require different tools to heal our problems, but this post is extremely inspiring to me; not because you got married (congratulations, of course ), but you moved on and improved your life tremendously from a problem that you felt that you couldn't be rid of. I'll be taking your tips that you posted (some of them I'm already trying to do) and hopefully down the line I can have some words and things to show in all of this. Godspeed and congratulations.

Chubby · Jun 6, 2022

Bogor said: ↑

So, you all deserve some context.

I used to be a serial fapster. And I mean, doing it for 2 or 3 times a day, every single day without fail ever since my late teens. I am now 31-years old, and I made an account here a couple of years back and made on and off attempts at quitting cold turkey.

My fapping sessions sometimes involved porn or other online material that I found sexually appealing, but mostly my imagination, and sometimes even exhibitionist tendencies.

I had to drop out from university whilst pursuing a postgrad because my habits grew so bad that I was spending pretty much no time at all on studying. My hobbies dried up, I had a failed (long distance) relationship, and found myself going back to my country, and then the pandemic well and truly struck and I was left without a job for over a year.

My finances dried up because I had used up everything on my habits, which I think I best not detail too much due to triggering effects that may be caused on you guys, but mostly because I cringe talking about them and feel there is no benefit to it.

I managed to land myself a dreadfully boring but decent paying job for a year, but that was the best year I've had in a long time. That was because I got quite a lot of free time and decided to finally act, seriously with a view to get permanently cured from my addiction.

Using my newfound resolve and free time, I met the girl of my dreams, a girl who has her own insecurities and isn't afraid to share her thoughts with me. I felt myself opening up to her, the first time I've truly done that with anyone actually, and this really strengthened my resolve. We were not sexually involved at the time, because we decided to do that after marriage as part of my recovery process.

We got married in October and it has been great!

The effects of my previous habits remained during the first week when we were exploring each other sexually. I had a bit of a problem with ED, which she thankfully understood, but I can proudly confirm that that issue gradually went away and I honestly feel cured.

If you go through these forums and read about the experiences of others, you will find that ED is a common side effect of this wretched habit, and according to some researchers, more and more young people have been falling victim to this, most likely caused due to the ease of access to online porn and subsequent fapping habits.

To those who are in this, I say don't fret. I was a virgin until I turned 31, always had trouble talking to girls, had terrible self-confidence, always doubted myself and lost quite a lot of my useful skills due to my previous habits. I've wasted so much time and money, while a lot of my coworkers and friends of my age have achieved much, much more that I can imagine in their lives.

But, it's never too late. Ultimately, it's all up to each of us to take our lives by the scruff of the neck and try to lead it somewhere. I'm still careful with how I conduct myself, because I'm very aware that certain sediments of the addiction will always linger inside me. You could say that I'm in a permanent state of recovery.

I don't want to lose the things that I've worked so hard to achieve, the things that make me happy.
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Thanks for motivating me. Yesterday, due to your motivation, I was able to say my feelings to the girl I liked. She says thank you in return. I was so happy after that, because most of the time in my life I was an introvert and this gave confidence in communicating with others. So, really thanks for that.

ArtPoet21 · Jun 10, 2022

Congratulations

Bikash Sharma · Jun 11, 2022

Thank you bro!

Chrys568 · Jun 16, 2022

Bogor said: ↑

Donc, vous méritez tous un peu de contexte.

J'avais l'habitude d'être un fapster en série. Et je veux dire, le faire 2 ou 3 fois par jour, chaque jour sans faute depuis la fin de mon adolescence. J'ai maintenant 31 ans, et j'ai créé un compte ici il y a quelques années et j'ai fait des tentatives intermittentes pour arrêter la dinde froide.

Mes séances de tapage impliquaient parfois du porno ou d'autres contenus en ligne que je trouvais sexuellement attrayants, mais surtout mon imagination, et parfois même des tendances exhibitionnistes.

I had to drop out from university whilst pursuing a postgrad because my habits grew so bad that I was spending pretty much no time at all on studying. My hobbies dried up, I had a failed (long distance) relationship, and found myself going back to my country, and then the pandemic well and truly struck and I was left without a job for over a year.

My finances dried up because I had used up everything on my habits, which I think I best not detail too much due to triggering effects that may be caused on you guys, but mostly because I cringe talking about them and feel there is no benefit to it.

I managed to land myself a dreadfully boring but decent paying job for a year, but that was the best year I've had in a long time. That was because I got quite a lot of free time and decided to finally act, seriously with a view to get permanently cured from my addiction.

Using my newfound resolve and free time, I met the girl of my dreams, a girl who has her own insecurities and isn't afraid to share her thoughts with me. I felt myself opening up to her, the first time I've truly done that with anyone actually, and this really strengthened my resolve. We were not sexually involved at the time, because we decided to do that after marriage as part of my recovery process.

We got married in October and it has been great!

The effects of my previous habits remained during the first week when we were exploring each other sexually. I had a bit of a problem with ED, which she thankfully understood, but I can proudly confirm that that issue gradually went away and I honestly feel cured.

If you go through these forums and read about the experiences of others, you will find that ED is a common side effect of this wretched habit, and according to some researchers, more and more young people have been falling victim to this, most likely caused due to the ease of access to online porn and subsequent fapping habits.

À ceux qui sont là-dedans, je dis ne vous inquiétez pas. J'étais vierge jusqu'à mes 31 ans, j'ai toujours eu du mal à parler aux filles, j'avais une terrible confiance en moi, j'ai toujours douté de moi et j'ai perdu beaucoup de mes compétences utiles à cause de mes habitudes antérieures. J'ai perdu tellement de temps et d'argent, alors que beaucoup de mes collègues et amis de mon âge ont accompli beaucoup, beaucoup plus que je ne peux imaginer dans leur vie.

Mais, il n'est jamais trop tard. En fin de compte, c'est à chacun de nous de prendre sa vie par la peau du cou et d'essayer de la mener quelque part. Je fais toujours attention à ma conduite, car je suis très conscient que certains sédiments de la dépendance resteront toujours en moi. On pourrait dire que je suis dans un état permanent de rétablissement.

Je ne veux pas perdre les choses pour lesquelles j'ai travaillé si dur, les choses qui me rendent heureux.
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Bien jouer mon gar tu peu être fier de toi en débit tu n'as pas baissé les bras et la partie qui m'intéresse dans ton histoire est la ou tu dis << il n'est jamais tard>> je le souhaite à tout un chacun ici que chacun trouve son chemin

Hsooon · Jul 10, 2022

Marriage is not a cure for porn and a girl won't make you happy

Dizzy Lotus · Jul 11, 2022

Hsooon said: ↑

Marriage is not a cure for porn and a girl won't make you happy
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I think the OP tells that message well enough.

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