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First 30 days starts tomorrow.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Huntin89, Oct 8, 2015.

  1. Oct 8, 2015 #1
    Huntin89

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    Hello everybody,

    My first 30 days starts tomorrow. I'm still a little unclear about how this works. How do I get one of those green bars underneath my name that says how long I've abstained? Also, whats the difference between the 30 day challenge and the 90 day challenge? Are the successive or are you supposed to go 30 day Fap, restart and go 90 days? Im just a little confused. Any help is much appreciated. Thanks for your time and stay strong everyone!
     
    Huntin89, Oct 8, 2015
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  2. Oct 9, 2015 #2
    yohan.b

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    In my opinion, the difference between the 30 and 90 is only the Time. I believe that you want to change something in your life, and that why you are doing it. I will give you an example: I want to have more confidence, to eliminate social anxiety and to love my gf. Today I'm at day 46 of the 90 day challenge, but it doesn't mean that after 90 days I'm going back to p or m. It just mean I can have sex with my girl. I think the number of days is just confirmation to a change In your life.
     
    yohan.b, Oct 9, 2015
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  3. Oct 9, 2015 #3
    BBX555

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    Why plan to start tomorrow what you should do today? Don't make the mistake of using porn 'for the last time' before starting recovery. Every use sets you back marathon you realise. It this is your first time, I will aim at 7 days, then, 15 days, then a month. After that I would aim for 45 days and 60 days. After 60 days on clean time, I will then aim for 90. Setting achievable goals is much wiser, otherwise every time you fail to reach a much higher goals you are at risk of discouragement and disillusionment. Good luck
     
    BBX555, Oct 9, 2015
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  4. Oct 9, 2015 #4
    Huntin89

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    Thanks for your input, i really appreciate it. I look forward to taking control of my addiction and using my will power to the max. I'm definitely ready for this change just not sure how many days I want to tackle the first go round.
     
    Huntin89, Oct 9, 2015
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  5. Oct 9, 2015 #5
    Huntin89

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    Thanks for looking out. The reason today had to be the first day is because I had already PMOed prior to signing up. My friend had told me about this site but didn't remember the name at the time so I started searching and found it. I singed up immediately and am totally onboard as I am in the midst of changing alot of things in my life. Thanks for your advice on how long to go. I'm honestly not sure what i want my first goal to be. I don't see a reason why it couldn't be at least 14. Thanks again for your support!
     
    Huntin89, Oct 9, 2015
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  6. Oct 9, 2015 #6
    Huntin89

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    I made it through my first day successfully. I'm still not sure how to get that little green bar to show up with your goal and how long its been but I know what I've done. Anyway, thanks for all the well-wishing and support. You guys are the shit!
     
    Huntin89, Oct 9, 2015
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