To have victory masturbation session or not?

Id say do it....feeling how I am feeling since fapping., I feel great! After 100+ days I'd recommend only doing it once though and yeah defi no porn or fantasy just purely being turned on by yourself...oh and no death grip!!

 

No, no, no! This is really bad advice. Just because you had a wank and feel awesome doesn't mean that others will.

 

Well he's asking our advice and based on my experience this is what I'm saying just like you have your opinion!

I think at the end of the day it's totally up to him if he wants to or doesn't want to.

Personally for me! The past month I have gone insane and I feel better from doing it...that's my opinion and experience though. Take it with a pinch of salt

 

Yes, but you and I know that our comments are not just read by one member. There are a lot of people on this site that are struggling to stop this behaviour and their addicted brain's will pick up on anything that will give them a "fix".

 

Well the whole point about forums is sharing opinions etc...this was mine. I only said do it as he asked our opinion on this.

But in that point this was just my experience and I believe if it's die thing you are questioning then it's probably not the right thing for you to do!

I'm in the thinking that PMO is the main enemy but also preserving sexual energy is a positive and I personally only really plan on having O when I'm win my GF so this is not something I advise as a regular thing

 

got it, that means your still addicted !! like I am still addicted to M O

 

way to go on the days!!!!!! so let me tell you something about my experience, I went about 4 or 5 month with out 1 single m or o session, I did it one time, and let me tell you that you will not get that high feeling in your head, it will nott be a grand feeling down there either, for me it was like going to the restroom not to be rude, just saying, it will not make you happy! with this being said, you maybe get back into the habit of o and back into doing it every day, JUST BECAUSE YOU WENT 90 DAAYS, DOES NOT MEAN IT WILL MAKE IT EASIER NEXT TIME, YOU M OR O, IT WILL BE JUST AS HARD AS WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Don't get me wrong, but it sounds to me like you're just looking for a plausible excuse to masturbate. If your only goal is to reach 90 days and then return to this habit, then feel free to masturbate. If you're going for the long shot, then you shouldn't do it, as you'll feel empty or worse, miserable.

I am not sure what your goal is, but like I said, it's entirely up to you and it really depends on what you want to achieve. Best of luck, pal.

 

Let the man do whatever he wants. I see no harm if it's done by sensation and not fantasy, porn, or porn subs.
There's plenty of good and bad advice on these forums and a lot of it is a matter of experience and opinion. Some people can do it and be completely fine and some people can't. At the end of the day brotha, it's your body, your mind, and your life. Who cares what we think and find out what works for you!
This whole NoFap thing is one big collective experiment anyway.

 

There is no healthy masturbation with a porn addiction. That's like an alcoholic drinking beer. I will NEVER masturbate again no matter if I'm single or not. It's sad to just lay there and touch myself rather than trying to save that true sexual connection and satisfaction with another human being. There is no such thing as a victory fap when you have any type of porn addiction. If I start masturbating every "once in a while" it will lead me back to pmo, webcamming and self objectification. No thanks. Stay strong!

 

I once knew a man who were something physically remarkable: bull-like, big, strong, very hairy... everything that i were not. Once this guy said as a joke, but really meaning it, that he had kind of blue balls because his wife as way of punish him "closed her legs" for indefinite time... At that time i thought: Gosh! this man doesn't do any kind of fapping!!! (thing that i took as weird at that time)

 

I had to surrender when it was my time. Based on my many failures, my knowledge is useless unless someone wants it. Masturbate as much as you feel like it. You can always come back here if it becomes a problem. Peace.

 

A blow to the head!

 

Hi Bartledoo. I admire your honesty, and your writing makes me smile.

I know I'm late to the party, The main problem I have with your approach (and it's my problem, not yours) is your language, the words "Victory" and "Reward" in particular. For me, this is looking at masturbation as something that you are denying yourself. You might say, "I am!" , but then you're probably thinking about it in the wrong way.

Try and enjoy the process, and the journey, rather than 'being a martyr' and suffering from something you can't have. That way you're building masturbation into the goal, and making it more desirable in your brain.

I do think you're right, there is nothing intrinsically wrong with masturbation, and it can be a release, especially when you have no other outlet. It's the linking of masturbation and porn that's the issue. But ritualising, and setting masturbation up as a reward st the end of a set period isn't going to be mentally helpful. Avoid porn, release, reboot, but reward yourself in some other, more positive way.

 

LMAO

Can't breathe, thread is just way too damn funny loll!!!

 

90 days fast approaching for me now so in some respects I feel your pain. However I think like this....
I've said NO to pushing myself into the mattress, stroking my D, edging, bring my self to Arousal by touch. Spilling my seed down the pan and laying in bed all alone having a wank.

Ive made the decision.not to sit in my own sweat, hands covered in cum, fap to a glowing acreen, the list goes on.

Fapping, wanking, knocking one out wharever we call it. I'm done with it... It owes me nothing its brought me nothing but a shit stinking lonely existance for 32 years. Fk that again.

 

This thread had me rolling!!