what which groups ? i cant see any groups on whatp, somebody must connect you or ??????am i stupid? i never seen any groups there omg. how possible? i see only my contacts. can you please tell me details about whatp groups, how can i find them?
when i try to find groups in telegram, its a bit possible, for example some virtual chat, but they are scammers only, but on whatp i haver never seen any groups, and i was looking for omg. im blind or what. somebody must connect you i gues?
My wife got jealous when she found out i did too, but it also made her very aroused and she joined in too on some occasions. Maybe make sure ur bf is messaging YOU sexy stuff instead?
Google is the ultimate search engine. Once upon I time I searched free dating sites etc and it comes up with loads of websites which you can sign up for free and people post ads basically stating they want sex. A lot of fake accounts but if you put a number on there you’d get hundreds of messages in imagine.
What is he saying in these messages? Is he wanting sex more often, spice it up in the bedroom? Could possibly give him an ultimatum because if you know about it and he’s doing it it’s not healthy. If my wife to be found out what I was doing I’d stop and be begging for forgiveness. This post gathered a lot of traction and in a way I’m glad I not the only one suffering. I’ve not been doing it lately it’s usually when I’m stressed out and it’s basically for comfort and a mini release. Sexting strangers for me was like forbidden fruit. In a silly way I enjoyed the secretive messages and having messages which were very very erotic. I never met anyone but if I did I would have regretted it.
dating site for free that people want sext and talking about sex? can you tell how is this searching ? i dont know, i cant find such of things, im maybe not skillfull in this. im sure there exist some platforms, but i dont know. i did once on reddit, to check if he is there, but they wanted some payment to start to chat, whatp telegram grous you cant enter fo free also in this groups. i dont understand question.
ultimatum? he never listened any ultimatum, i always so much cry, i wanted some normal relationship, when man is giving me all time attention all, and man is always looking at me, not hunting sexting with another girls, bevause if my man thinks about another girl in bed,- means that he is cheating on me- because cheating starts in thoughts.
spicy up in bedroom? hmm i dont know, i out some sexi clothes, i dont know, he has always what he wants in the bed, im comfortable with all what he requires, i dont know, he is mostly dominanting in bed, and im ok with this, so im following, he has even each day some intim activity with me, either oral, or some normal sex, and he very much enjoys, so i dont know.
The only reason i sexted or watched porn is because i have a much higher and niche sex drive that my wife - we only usually have sex 2-4 nights a week, and cause we've been together so long it does get repetitive. Men are sexual creatures and like primal novelty - we are also very visual too! Women I find are more sensual, and prefer cuddling and romantic stuff. For men, sex is more of a thrill - we have a mechanical urge to get off.
with me he has sex everytime he wants, maybe even 7 times (in one week) maybe even more, it depends on many factors, during period no, or if im so much tired or sick, of course just two three days there is nothing, or when he is sick, but otherwise i like to do sex even each day, and if there is no sex, i do oral for him, so he cant say anyhing about, he even doesnt want and i want, so its not our problem, our sexual daily life is awesome. so there is oral always when i have period, but i never neglected him in this way, and i never told NO. and maybe this is my mistake, im extreme stupid. because man must follow me, and beg me for sex i shouldnt give him everytime everything..then he doesnt value me at all
Just reading the room. Please correct me if I'm wrong, but this website is not the appropriate place for you to relapse for everyone to see, yeah?
Men also have self-control so being a man isn't an excuse for sexting. Just because you feel like doing something doesn't mean you have to do it. There are plenty of things a man can do instead of sexting such as reading a book, playing chess or going for a walk. Now I'm not saying it's easy but it's possible. I expect everyone in this forum has done things they find hard so it being difficult doesn't mean it can't be achieved.
@Synthia24 Your situation is very different to mine, but without writing an essay I could shed some genuine advice which you could act upon. I’ll respect what @tsukuyomi16 has stated too and not trigger anyone. I first put up this post as my ‘addiction’ turned into talking to strangers online and it was very very addicting. And after a long break of not doing it I started again. And was asking if this was due to porn addiction. Did I become sort of numb to porn and want more? Was it because I had issues in my relationship? My partner doesn’t know of my addiction. I once mentioned I watch porn more than I’d like to admit and she said “just stop”. It’s the same as telling a smoker to stop smoking. That’s how I view this addiction. Now in your situation @Synthia24 is a little more complex. Firstly you’re aware of your partners addiction, he’s openly admitted he’s chatting to other women and does it when you’re around. And your also having regular ‘adult time’ with him to fulfil his needs. Not all men are the same and I do not speak for all men but I will say this. Most of the men I have met and myself included if we had regular sex with our partner on a daily basis we would not require pleasure elsewhere. For most men everyday is a bit much, body parts need to recover. If your partner isn’t satisfied sexually from a daily session and more. And needing other stimulation or interactions. He had an addiction. This situation must bother you to post it online and maybe impacting you emotionally. But you need to look at the bigger picture. If I was in your shoes I’d be convincing my partner to get some help or not use his phone. Cut off all contact with these people he’s talking to. And if he can’t see that his lifestyle is unhealthy then I would honestly consider leaving the relationship or having a break. I’m not telling you to break up with your partner it’s your life you’re the boss but to me. It doesn’t seem very healthy. A relationship needs to be more than that. You need loving and warmth and time together, trust etc. Even if you had a little time apart it may allow him to reflect on what he wants and what you want.
I agree with everything you said up to the leaving the relationship part. Dumping someone after dating for a few weeks is one thing, but after being intimate with someone for years, you can't leave them over something like this, you got to get through it together.
We only get one life. Would you rather spend your years happy with someone you trust or stressed out trying to make it work. I’m very straight to the point in life.
I’m in my late 20s and have a long term partner. Yes I love her very very very much. To the moon and back. But we have to look after ourselves first. If I was in an unhealthy relationship and not happy with what my partner was doing. Constantly bringing issues up and nothing changes I’m basically wasting my life. I could be spending that time happy on my own or with someone who appreciates me. In @Synthia24 case I’m not telling her to break up or do anything drastic. To simply reflect on the situation and look at the bigger picture. Sometimes in life we have to be selfless. Put ourselves first. I’m always nice to everyone and put myself last but it doesn’t get me anywhere in life. I’ve had bad relationships in the past and looking back on them now I literally wasted nearly 2-3 years of my life. Thinking I was in love when in reality I was bad with women and was holding on to the little attention I had off women.
