Ah man. Typical. I have a hot girl that's my type hitting me up. But I'm not confident it will go well. I'm not going to take any pills and power through like I did before. She's in my circle of friends. What do you tell women? I can't help but talk to her and flirt a little as she's hot but she's getting frustrated as I'm not taking the lead and inviting her over. She's been very forward and it's clear that she just wants casual fun. I can't think of anything to say that doesn't make me sound weak! And I don't want to piss her off either. Would you just try and have sex or reject her?
I want to see her as I think this could be something good. But I dread the sex going badl, which it probably will.
If you are dreading sex already it will probably go poorly, due to mental blocks/anxiety. Why not just pop half a tadalafil before? And have a few drinks with her so you can both relax
Making this question is not a good sign. I think you already know the answer. Are you in the " Flatline " ?
I've done this the last year or so when I feel a date is going there. I find that it only gets me 70% hard. I feel like I'm still in a flatline. I'm one of those unfortunate ones that's pretty much always in a flatline until I finally heal. Then, a relapse or two takes me right back.
Yeah, you're probably right. I think I am in a flatline yeah – not a super flatline but a minor flatline all the same.
I used to have to dodge them myself but p/m/o ruined me to such an extent that I no longer have to. Good luck.
That's what I was thinking... She's attracted to you, good for you! Take the attraction as a compliment, then YOU decide where you want her in your life. That's the opposite of weak.
My opinion is you should ask this girl out and go on a date. If she tries to get you to bed and you're not comfortable with it. Explain to her that you're not that type of guy and you're more interested in her for a relationship. She might tell you that she's only looking for a friend with benefits and is not seeking a relationship but at least she would know how you feel. Maybe she never thought of you as the boyfriend type, but will reassess you and think to give you a chance to date each other.
If you are craving sex just forget it. If you have that in your mind because pmo addiction is still strong i suggest you to just stop it ngl. When the first thing is sex, you're hijacked asf
Not craving sex but I do want it. Lots of people on Nofap seem to be anti-sex or pretty close to it, I'm not. Just dreading it not going well.
When you talk with a girl, she is nice and hot ok. First thing you want is love and sex means you hijacked yourself into the abyss. I had that during pmo times too. Now i never get that only true happiness when i talk with girls
What are you talking about? As a healthy man, having the desire to have sex with attractive women is completely normal and evolutionarily ingrained in our brains.
