Only experts please!! i'm worried

what @Alpha Centurion said, you got the "flatline" where nothing (but porn) turns you on, your mind is resetting to other things right now I would think.

Oh when you experience flatline, try to fill that void with something (other than) porn, that way it won't lead you into relapse and you'll come out stronger.

 

Lol experts only...

 

What are you worrying at all?
Nature has made you to get an erection when you are together with a woman. Not when you are fantasizing.

Don't worry. When you are connected to the right woman, erection will come by itself.

 

I'm on day 53 and and I've been in flatline for the best part of 5 weeks. During that time I've come out of flatline for a few days here and there and it's gotten stronger each time. The morning wood, the spontaneous erections and everything else.

Don't fight it, just own it. You need to ride this out and don't stress out about it. You gave up a drug and the dopamine your brain was rewarding you with is no longer flowing since you cut off porn. Give it time and stay strong.

 

1)if we consider the whole rebooting process , 40 days is nothing , you're doing great yes , but your brain havent strarted healing. IT TAKES YEARS! unlearning porn is like learning a musical instrument.
2)do not fantasise ( my personal advice ) , you're only doing either because you're not serious about rebooting or you're trying to check if you're "normal" . well , if you fantasise just to make sure you still desire women , then don't worry , I can guarantee you that you still do . you don't need to use such methods
3)the flatline could last for months. actually I am currently in a flatline , I just feel like a soft , cute little girl , haha , but I know it's perfectly normal
4)just focus on preventing relapse , for the rest, your body and brain WILL heal with time