Does anyone hump their bed ? Is this a form of edging

I do sometimes....was like one of the first things I kinda tried when I was a little bit younger n first started masturbating. Right now it doesnt seem as bad considering everything else Ive done.

 

That's what I always do. Up and down, back and forth... gets me to my climax way quicker than masturbating using my hand. I do it in bath, too.

 

Wait, huh? It seems like masturbating to me, really.

 

It is probably unhelpful to think of this in terms of right or wrong, okay or not allowed. Context is everything. The context, here, for most of us, is the reboot. During the Reboot all artificial sexual stimulation should be avoided, like the plague. You need to get the hard 90 in, get rebalanced, rebooted, re-set back to factory settings. After that, back to normal, you can figure out what your normal is. But, get the Reboot in first.

 

This is masturbation! If you are face down then it is, by strict definition: "prone masturbation". What difference does it make whether you rub your penis with your hand or rub it against a carpet, cushions, pillows, a duvet or the bed itself!?

If you do it to get close to orgasm, ease off and then build up again - that is a form of masturbation called edging. How you do it is irrelevant. Some people use a variety of methods but it is estimated that 10% of all masturbators do so prone.

 

And it's so unhealthy for your penis as well I used to do it prone but luckily I managed to get rid of it.

 

Anything that gives you a sustained and continual dopamine rush is edging whether it's in the form of masturbating or porn or p-subs. It's all hurting your reboot even more than just masturbating to orgasm. This is because normally during an orgasm your body releases dopamine; and then prolactin and seratonin which send you into the refractory period and calm your excited body. When you don't actually achieve orgasm and just edge, all your body does is flood your brain with dopamine, but then there is no seratonin or prolactin to counteract this, causing your brain to "sit" in dopamine much longer than it would during a normal orgasm. So yes, humping a bed is certainly edging and is actually worse for you than straight up masturbating.

 

Ok, i come from a place of ignorance, but ...

Unless you have a hole in your bed ( which is totally fine ), how can you "hump" it and get pleasure from it ?

From this thread, a lot of guys know how to and some have even done it.

Maybe I'm just stupid Because ... like ... do you smash your penis into your bed ? XD

Yeah, i have no idea. And i don't want to look it up on the internet for the obvious reasons. So if you can give me a logic explanation

 

Spoiler: masturbation techniques, might be highly triggering!

I start by moving up and down vertically. As I get erect, I often pause to bring my penis in a comfortable position (I do it with pants and underwear on so I don't wet the bed). I then start moving up and down horizontally, faster and faster, until I come. I think this is actually quite close to real sex, even though I've never experienced real sex. The movements are similar, though.

Please, though: do not try it. It's fresh for you, and probably addictive, so don't even try it once. You don't need to know how it feels, why would you?

 

Even if i wanted to try, i couldn't

I'm too sensitive "down there", so ( at least from your description ) i couldn't do that

In fact i would be afraid of getting my penis cut or something XD Maybe I'm just imagining it wrong, but seems to rough for me lol.

Spoiler: Triggers

Like, do you actually rub the penis head on the bed ? You said you did with pants and underwear. If you didn't, would it hurt for you ?

 

Not on the side of the bed, on the mattress

 

I did this once when I was half way having a wet dream, but awoke before it was 'finished' so decided to close my eyes and hump the bed until I finished. It was a fantasy about the girl who works in my office and the dream was too good to have stopped LOL. But yeah don't recommend it while wide awake or whatever.

 

When i said bed, i wanted to say mattress XD

But even that way, doesn't kinda hurt rubbing it ? Maybe I'm just too sensitive.

 

Have a sensitive penis ... like me

Even normal fapping is rough lol.

 

Mate, all porn available is fucking addictive.

The desire to humo your bed is just your habit of PMO wanting to find a release.