On Day 14, had a bj(no O). Is it relapse?

It depends if you get blowjob from partner or you done it by yourself.

 

I'm wondering: did they want to do it themselves or did you pay them to?

 

If you release your load thats relapse bruh, in my opinion most benefits from no fapp comes from semen retention ;]

 

I understand that you wanted to 'see if it is still working'. I'm on day 17 now and also going through a flatline and I am also wondering if it is still okay down under. However, nobody on Nofap can tell you whether it counts as a relapse or not. That's up to you to decide. Do you have the feeling that your PMO-challenge is compromized, that you have betrayed yourself? Even though you didn't O, did you have the Dopamine hit? Because that's the one that you should be avoiding. Maybe not resetting your PMO-challenge after this bj will hollow out the whole concept of the challenge and result in a relapse further on.

Up to you to decide, but don't be too easy on yourself!

 

Amen

 

Not a relapse of any sort unless semen retention is your goal. Sexual activities with someone present in the room(don't get weird) haha is entirely justifiable. Even "jerking" yourself off is fine as long as a woman is present. Or man,you get the point! I've even heard of some people having porn playing in the background during a lovemaking session but to me that's a little extreme if you're trying to reboot at that time. Rebooted that's entirely up to you,but its best to leave that dark past in the history imo. But maybe this could help those with p.i.e.d..I'm unbiased.

 

Yes, it's a relapse.

 

No, it's not. One of the goals of NoFap is to concentrate yourself on real woman and not some pixelized chick you see on your monitor.

 

That's exactly my point, even though I didn't mention it explicitly; couldn't have said it any better myself either.