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How Guys go so long without MO

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by gohanrage, May 5, 2017.

  1. gohanrage

    gohanrage Fapstronaut

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    I can understand staying away from Porn but when you have never been on a date and feel like you'll never experience sex with a partner. what are they supposed to do? Its as if we cannot ejaculate unless its hands free, like a wet dream.

    My City has 3 Men Only Bath houses. But I hear they are full of old guys. People go there for sex. there are lockers. your only allowed to wear a towel around the bath house. you can rent rooms to have sex and be private. they have glory holes and such. I am so disappointed about turning 37 years old and still never been on a date. I hate having no friends. I keep thinking that if I am still a virgin come 2020 i'll be hiring a escort or prostate. I would ask for the boyfriend experience. Like the love in my favorite romantic gay films.

    I doubt there are many HOT single Men who also have Social anxiety disorder. It is a disorder when it as an effect on your daily life. I am going to PRIDE again this year. I hope its not going to rain. the past 4 days have been non stop rain. they are talking more rain in a day then an entire month. probably had 100 millimeters by now

    Anyone with social anxiety disorder can experience it in different ways. But here are some common situations that people tend to have trouble with:

    Talking to strangers
    Speaking in public
    Dating
    Making eye contact
    Entering rooms
    Using public restrooms
    Going to parties
    Eating in front of other people
    Going to school or work
    Starting conversations

    Sorry guys I think this is in the wrong section
     
    Last edited: May 5, 2017
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  2. sparkywantsnoPMO

    sparkywantsnoPMO NoFap Moderator & Yeoman

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    Not everyone practices permanent abstinence from M. The official resources on the site advocate for a healthy sex life, and consider M a part of that. Mixing it with P becomes problematic. Some people, especially those who are religious, feel that M is also a problem, and avoid it. You need to do the research and determine what works best for yourself. That's part of the reason the site allows you to define your reboot.
     
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  3. ps129

    ps129 Fapstronaut

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    no reason to feel like you'll never have sex. your past doesnt determine your future. complete the nofap challenge, get all the benefits that it gives you and approach this part of your life with a new confidence. you never know what will happen

    this is a personal decision, completely up to you. either way, may be best to stay away from the bath houses during the challenge so you dont get triggered and risk relapse

    you doubt wrong! no one wears a badge that says they are experiencing social anxiety so you dont really ever know what someone is expriencing internally. all you can do is work on yourself, improve yourself.
     
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  4. gohanrage

    gohanrage Fapstronaut

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    The Majority of Males Probably have more of a chance then me to actually ever be intimate with another person. I am afraid of getting an STD, I am Sure that the Men I find attractive will think I am not in their league. I have read a story where these two men date and seem to have huge attraction. they become intimate start making out the one guy is long enough that the head of his penis is sticking out of his boxers and when the other guy starts to pull down his boxers he wasn't satisfied with the size of the guys penis and told him this will not do and told him to grab his stuff and leave. he was like are you serious and he was. other guys have been told by other gay men that they are too fat. Gay guys are very shallow and I know I am not innocent of that. I have never known any gay guys.

    I think it would be much easier to just stay alone then get put down by other guys. I am not even able to talk to guys. starting conversations is impossible. I am unable to use a public bathroom unless it has a single toilet bowl, a single sink and a single door which locks. most of the time I won't even enter the regular men's room. times I have made it inside nothing has happened.

    I bought this masturbator which is kind of like a flash light at least its like ripped inside. when I have used it to masturbate I have found when I ejaculated in side I would become too sensitive to continue. which is something I haven't experienced since my teens. the toy is basically a hollow Penis its called Fuck My Cock. its a floppy but looks erect it was over 100 dollars its life like flesh and the first one I bought broke the first time I used it. ejaculating inside called a air bubble in the tip which then popped and all my semen inside rushed out the tip on my bedding. I did get sent a replacement which I used 5 times before it also got a hole in the tip. its a defective product as far as I am concerned. They made the thickness between the inside and the outside of the tip of the product too then so it gets holes in it easily.

    it was because of that I bought this new toy. the Octopuss Solo III
    The World’s first Guybrator™ with patented PulsePlate Technology™
    PULSE is a multi-award winning male stimulator that uses oscillations to stimulate the man

    I posted this somewhere else and people made a big deal. even said something about me being gripped not sure what that means probably want me to get banned. I read about NoFap at the bottom and I didn't see any thing any list of reasons people would be banned

    https://www.nofap.com/about/

    This is what someone said to me.
    - Why do you even post this here? Don't you understand, that this could trigger someone?
    My Response: Its been months since I posted here. Don't act like I am constantly causing trouble. Go Bug someone who is actually a frequent nuisance
    - Please report this post, if you haven't.
    - But I'm sure that self sexual pleasure, a.k.a. masterbation has and will grip you more than enough for your crimes.
     
    Last edited: Jul 15, 2017
  5. gohanrage

    gohanrage Fapstronaut

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    15 days away from turning 37. I've been dealing with Sciatic nerve pain they call it Sciatica. This makes it incredibly hard to walk or stand. I wanted so bad to go to a Pride party in July I had waited the whole year to go but the pain was just too bad. there is no way I could stand or walk around I decided not to go. and so now I have to wait until next year.

    These nerves start in your back and then run all the way round each leg to your feet. It hurts to stand it hurts to walk, it hurts to play in bed or even roll over in bed. I Dredd going to bed because the pain is so bad. my ANKLE hurts really bad when I have pressure on my back from laying in bed. I've been in pain since march. I believe it happened when we had 3 days of heavy snow. I have a shovel which I can use two hands and it also has a spot for my boot to help push the snow. I used my left leg and after that I had a sore back and left side of my butt. then the pain traveled down to my shin, calve, ankle, my Achilles heel and my foot have been in serious pain. I've been going to Physiotheropy which so far hasn't really helped. I am on a new drug which is supposed to quite the nerve. been only able to take a single pill at bed time but come tomorrow I will be able to take two a day.
     
    Last edited: Jul 15, 2017
  6. Zapster21

    Zapster21 Fapstronaut

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    If you want sex with guys it's quite easy. I'm bisexual and wanted to explore sex with men. Just signed up with a gay dating site, and within 2 hours I had 11 guys contacting me for sex. Decided for one, and I had a d... in my mouth an hour later...
     

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