No one was born to be a porn addict. It's called sin. I wouldn't give up so easy if I were you, but it's ultimately your choice.
My postmodern sensibilities really agree with your title. But my Axial brain still desires self-actualization and transcendence, which is why I'm here. It's also why you're also here. Good luck with everything.
I haven't, plus nofap is a forum for people who wants to quit p and also other addictions. only when you are dead you give up. Yeah maybe i was born to be a p addict but I overcame my addictions. Porn ruins your life and if you don't think this, you are in denial. Life is good for me now Keep fighting! It is so worth it. Do it for yourself, to be the BEST YOU
I've spent countless weekends stocked up on liquor, downloading tons of porn, setting up the monitor in the bed on warm summer days. Just drinking blinds shut, looking at porn, heating up food in the oven. Laying in bed, looking at P no longer giving me pleasure, being over saturated. Man, I hope someone joins me for a laugh thinking about that. I've now gone 50 some odd days without porn or masturbation. I wonder what "set of rules" you're playing by. You can be so unique no one can help you. Either you have what we have and it can be helped or if you really believe you're beyond help, there's nothing that can be done for you. Make up your mind.
Some people are wired to become more addicted than others. This is true for any addiction. Almost all people are addicted to one thing or other; so don't feel you are the odd one out. The important thing is you realized your addiction is a problem and you are working towards managing it unlike millions out there who are living life just for the sake of it.
maybe sth triggered you in your early life, you r born a blank paper, anything can stain you easier than that when you are older, i feel like a born porn addict too, but i know i was triggered by early exposure to female nudity, as long as i can remember i had been brought to high school public bathroom by my mother on a regular basis, so i was permanently imprinted by these images, and infatuated with women body
no, i just think it is revolting if you really did it. dunno if someone like you truly deserves redemption
He didn't say anything about rape. He said he sexually abused (manipulated) his young cousin. That might have been getting him/her to walk about in underwear or nude i.e. voyeurism. There may have been no sexual contact at all. Rape is a huge leap from what he said IMO. We don't want judgmental people here!
being sexually abusive is def not looking at someone dressed in their underwear. it is a pretty serious stuff especially done to a person you share blood with
I am not suggesting it is not serious. But sexually abusing someone contains a broad range of behaviours within it: Forms of child sexual abuse include engaging in sexual activities with a child (whether by asking or pressuring or by other means), indecent exposure (of the genitals, female nipples, etc), child grooming or using a child to produce child porn. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_sexual_abuse
whatever the case is, it causes so much pain and trauma to the victim. that's very sad and awful. How could someone do this? Would you do any of the things that you listed above?
Yes I agree. But it is not about me is it? A ,lot of child abuse happens within families. But my point earlier was simply that you cannot assume that the community member was disclosing rape, that's all.
You're being a real dick. Could you stop it. That guy came here to confess something terrible that he did when he was a fucked up kid, and he's now trying to overcome those demons. Your judgmental crap isn't needed, everyone knows that sexual abuse is terrible.