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Yaaay! You are liked here even many more times every day than the official likes youbget,cuz not everyone clicks the word. <3 Thanks for being you.

I'm not sure if sharing something slightly negative is a good thing to share, but I've noticed that being on NF forum so far into the counter made me doubt I could make it :/ . But it's my choice to believe the thoughts that I entertain, or not.

There's one more thing that I have noticed a few times.

You're very sweet to meee.

I asked if you wanna share anything good or bad :)
So what are you saying, being on on the forum while so far into your streak makes you doubt you can make it? So are you saying you need to get off the forum?

Whats the other thing?

That I am seeing fewer self-deprecating remarks from you is another thing I want to share and celebrate. If you wouldn't say something, even in jest, about a good friend (e.g. "no, she isn't that great really"), you probably shouldn't say that about yourself in response to a compliment.

hehe. I still do that and believe that most of the time. however, its also about feeling like if i deserve the words or not..i get overwhelmed sometimes , if i say "i am not really __." i dont want the person to *have *to say "oh u really are __ because ___ " ..lol but idk this is all complex. but I have gotten better in self esteem in some ways.

hehe , wow you're really paying attention to me and I do appreciate you so much, Sweet Viking.You sent a little wish up to the starry skies for me to get 1k in likes and youre so happy for me it warms my heart. :*

Now, did I correctly understand what you were sayiing up there about being on the forum?

Reading about how others find it hard, kinda reminded me that this is supposed to be hard, yeah. And now I'm kinda thinking how to prevent a reset, when I honestly forgot about the counter for weeks. I'm in my bf's country now for a visit so no worries though for now, :D until I go home again.

I'm also having an existential crisis, when I thought I could never have one. But the basis of that I can't put into words.

As for the previous topic, I just think you have to be at least as kind and generous with yourself as you are with other people. You can't make yourself this one exception, this one girl that you are unkind towards. But you know that already, I just have the honour to remind you of that :)

That's kinda deep.. Sometimes there are periods where it is less hard and theres nothing wrong with that, its celebratory. If you don't feel its hard right now then relax..hehe.

Also ya, don't stress yourself out too much..if you need a break from reading how difficult it is for others then you should take 1.
I will say I've often heard you should devise a plan like right now for when you leave your bf..:/
Anyways, I hope you're having a lovely time :+)
I'm sorry you're going through that, I believe in you and I am hoping you can pull through and figure things out.

So at least to yourself say "yeah, they're right, I'm effin' stellar! You're welcome, friends, enjoy my wonderful company". I think that even if you say it jokingly to yourself sometimes, even sardonically "yep, you are lucky to have me around", eventually you'll realise that it's well deserved (cuz it is), and enjoy being your wonderful self that we love, even more.

But "deserve" is a word I would meditate on too. Are you absolutely certain that in order to be worthy of love and appreciation, you need to do something (anything) to "earn" it?

https://ibb.co/q1TvJ5v lol.Thank you for reminding me and for the advice! I am trying and sometimes do think I deserve a lil somethang which was said or done for me so ya :+)

You're wise, Miss Viking!

Thanks for the tip about the plan! Feels right , I'm excited to think about it.

If you need an ear you're welcome to DM me :)

Did you see that ^ just making sure lol

I didn't, before. Thank youuuu *-* !!?

*!!!, not !!?