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@_Rasha_ - thank you so much. Ugh. I wanted to M so bad just now, but your response and your presence is encouraging to hold off . . . for at least two more days!.
My gf and I have agreed that we will try to have sexual intimacy on Saturday evenings. (though, the last 3 Saturdays we didn't . . . she wasn't in the mood or was sick). I am trying to hold up my end of the bargain and M'ing, especially just a few days before . . . well, let's just say that I want to be ready to go and don't want to ruin our chance for intimacy by masturbating.
I'm glad. You can do a lot ore than 2 days, stay strong.
Hope all goes well on Saturday. It's great that you respect her boundaries and are on a path of self improvement.
I'm glad to have a fellow traveller on this journey and grateful for your support! This is about self improvement AND it's about commitment in a relationship.
My partner has not set boundaries on masturbation (but porn is not okay). I need to do my part to ensure that I am present for her and capable of intimacy when the time comes. And M for me is dangerous territory - it can lead me down dark pathways of fantasy and back to porn use.
@_Rasha_ I believe that intimacy with a partner is far more important than masturbation, but now I am thrice thwarted. I've held off so that we might make love last Saturday, then Valentine's and now this Saturday. It's okay that we didn't but I am REALLY struggling not to M today!
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