Hey guys so today was supposed to be my 16th day of nofap but during online classes my dick went in between my thighs and it felt hot. After 5 seconds I had an involuntary ejaculation but i immediately blocked it. It then resulted in pain in the penis. I ejaculated some semen. What do I do now guys it's like if I dont masturbate I experience a huge frustration in my head. Should I reset?
No reset, if your body needs it, then go with it. Pain isn't a good sign, so don't block it. The goal is to get your mind clean, which is tricking you to think that you need M. Be aware of your thoughts, tell yourself you're doing a great job and don't worry about involuntary ejaculations. You're in the prime of your sexual life, so these things will happen.
Thank you very much bro but I have to say I do feel confident after elapsing as I never expected to come so far in my NoFap journey. I am actually not gonna reset my counter but im going to start fresh tomorrow so whenever I have an urge I'll see the counter and fool my brain into believing that im on day 16
Don't tell your brain, though. Otherwise he'll be warned. Keep going, my friend. You still have your whole life ahead of you. Without P you will be feeling much better, have more fun, get more attention of girls and be more productive. If I'd done what you are doing, when I was your age 45 years ago, I'm sure life would have been a lot less of a struggle and more fun. So, give yourself a tap on your shoulder regularly for undertaking this journey to a better you. @aricking this applies to you too! You are the generation of the future of our planet, so every step that takes you away from P makes our planet's future brighter.
Dude, I'm no expert but at 14, masturbating once in a while shouldn't be an issue. Just don't use porn. Don't be this hard on yourself. Don't put too much pressure on yourself or your dick and you'll be fine. Not trying to discourage if you're on a nofap routine, if you've decided it, follow through but at your age you don't need long reboot periods. But not watching porn should be a lifetime commitment.
also @aricking do you want to dm me just to discuss about nofap? you can dm me on insta, my username is serhpy! ciao!
In these week I am getting urges again .....and the urges are insane Today I almost search porn...but then when I remember my goals I stopped and didn't even search anything but still I am scared to lose my progress
My urges are making trouble.....yesterday and I saw some pics of models and even had precum.....i think I should reset my counter!what do you think?
It's up to you man. Don't get too caught up in what's a relapse and what's not. What has happened has happened. Keep going. It's up to you if you wanna reset your counter. Personally I dont care about my counter as it's easier if you just tell yourself nofap is the new normal. Kick PMO out forever. Having a counter and counting your days to meet a target adds lots of pressure. peace