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16th Day - First Wet Dream - I Feel Very Bad :(

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MrHq, Jan 16, 2018.

  1. MrHq

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    So last year (31st Dec '17), I decided to quit this filthy habit of masturbation and made NoFap a part of my new year's resolution. It was the last day I masturbated.
    Since 1st Jan, It has been going amazing so far as it's 16th day of this year today and I have not masturbated till now. But Today morning, at around 7:03 a.m I woke up with boner at PONR, I was about to ejaculate. I tried my best to hold it by pressing my kegels and I succeeded. A burn sensation felt and the rest of the cum went back except the the first squirt that came out. I ran towards the washroom, cleaned it. Felt very bad and I went back to sleep. Woke up later at around 10 for work and my urges to masturbate came back. I wanted to get it off again. Maybe because my mind was now satisfied that I had ejaculated this morning. I however stayed strong and didn't do it.
    I will not do it but I want to make sure, does it count as a relapse to my counter? How to not feel bad about it as it wasn't my fault. What happened to the cum I held, is it okay that it went back in my body or was it better for me to release it all?
    Please help me, I feel like im trapped in some sort of bad situation.
     
  2. FrenchWinner

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    Stay strong man
     
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  3. MrHq

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    If I get them again in future, does that mean I am doing something wrong? or do you have some tips to reduce them?
     
  4. PONR - What does that mean?
     
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  5. MrHq

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    Point Of No Return, or the Edge of cumming.
     
  6. MrHq

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  7. MrHq

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  8. You seem to be disagreeing with yourself. I am confused. :confused:
     
  9. MrHq

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    Both have the same meaning dude, i meant my body was holding the cum using kegels in the first one but couldn't hold it for long. Plus the same in second statement.

    Well 17th day it is and I had another wet dream kind of thing, I mean I dont know if it was a wet dream or what but I woke up with a boner and i was aroused. And in ny conscious. I ejaculated and blew everything out. I tried to stop but I couldn't. I felt a complete orgasm too, Is this a relapse? Shall I reset my counter?
     
  10. OK, I see. :)
    No reset required for this. Some wet dreams can be quite dramatic, like this was. I suggest very strongly that you do not try to stop them. Let them happen. If there is a lot of semen, that's fine. If you feel a complete orgasm, that too is fine. It is not a reset because it was involuntary. However, your urge to masturbate may be very strong for a couple of days :eek: (chaser effect). So, be prepared for a fight. Good luck Mr!
     
  11. MrHq

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    Thank you so much. This helped a lot. I think I had experienced the type of involuntary ejaculation that the guy did in forum you replied to.
    Yes definitely the urge is back but I'm not gonna touch it no matter what. I hope I go much further before I get my next one.
     
  12. You're welcome HQ. Remember to only touch your penis when you are washing it or taking a pee!
     
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  13. Marcothebest_1995

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    It is not a relapse at all. You did not do anything to get what happened.
    Don't think to "release" it now, that would be a relapse. And it's pretty bad.

    Just go normal. I had a phase, in the other rebooting, when I had a wet dream every 2-3 nights and I was still full of confidence and energies
     
  14. MrHq

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    Yes bro, I got it :)
     
  15. MrHq

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    Thats great. Thanks for the help man. Im also getting used to these ejaculations, this is probably the first time ive had two of them back to back. Nd Yeah it feels bad im not gonna let it take away my confidence.
     
  16. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Wet dreams are perfectly normal. It’s not a relapse.
     
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  17. JFH

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    I would not call it a relapse, just a normal bodily function. I think once your body gets filled back up with everything, this is just a blow off valve so you just don't explode. It's not going to deplete you like masturbating frequently does.
     
  18. MrHq

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    That was great help. Thanks a lot man.
     

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